Anyone reached goal weight - couldn't stop?

AskDrFeeder:
I have no hard data, but it seems to me that the people most likely to go out of control are those who stuff to the point where they can't take a deep breath once a week or more

Morbidly A Beast:
I am confusion do you mean that in the literal sense or the figurative sense

Munchies:
Extreme feeder here. This is an actual thing people do. I've stuffed my feedees and playmates to this point many times. Mind you I prefer masochistic feedees to general gluttons. My partner loves it when I stuff him until he can hardly breathe and is pinned to the bed with how stuffed he is.

Not everyone stuffs to that point because they are masochists. Some are legitimately that greedy. Others have a more competitive mindset and want to push their capacity.

You can come back from this, but it's hard. You need the desire to stop as well as having a good support system.

Morbidly A Beast:
So literally to full to take a deep breathe because there’s no room or cause he’s just eaten lol. I can’t take as deep breaths as I’d like but I’m not stuffed all the time pretty close but not all the time lol


Eh, not quite. Try "too full to breathe normally". All you can do is take shallow breaths.
1 year

Fav feederism memes?

Morbidly A Beast:
Those are pretty good


1 year

Fav feederism memes?

Ligr77:
I was wondering what people's favorite feederism related memes are. Figured it could be fun seeing what people's opinions are on the matter!


I like these





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1 year

Are there girls who like obese men?

Malvineous:
Out of curiosity, I did a search on Feabie for women who like men who are "chubby with a belly", and got 7,793 results out of a total 19,424 women who like men in general, making it 40.1% of the total.
I repeated the same search on Grommr for men seeking men with the same body type. It returned 23,921 out of a total of 50,186, or 47.6%.

OP does have a point. Not only is the percentage higher for men by almost 8 points, but the gap between 7K women and 23K men is huge. It's no surprise that more men are in these communities than women, and combine that with women generally not making the first move and being more cautious than men online, and they're going to feel rare in comparison.


This data is less about different genders that like chubby people with a belly than it is about women who are comfortable enough to admit it on the platform they are on.

Basically, it's apples and oranges.

It also doesn't take into account plus-sized body types like chubby without a belly, morbidly obese, strong fat etc., etc.

It would be interesting to see a robust demographic study on the online feedist community. Unfortunately, despite all the attempts I've seen to make such a thing, the engagement has been piss-poor.
1 year

Are there girls who like obese men?

Misterelephant88:
I like obese men and obese women, but I see that there are more men who like obese men than obese women who like an obese man.

Munchies:
I am so confused by what you are saying.

Are you saying that there are fewer women who like obese men than there are men who like obese women? Because if so, I recommend you go outside more. Talk to people. Touch some grass.

Misterelephant88:
I'm sorry if I didn't understand, I'm saying that I see more men interested in obese men, than women interested in obese men, sorry if I offended you Munchies, it wasn't my intention =(


I'm not offended by what you said. It's just that I foresaw this attracting people who are dumb about women, which has unfortunately come true.

To be clear, I am not saying you are the cause of this misogyny. This is a case of clumsy words and misogynists taking any excuse they can to shit on women.
1 year

Are there girls who like obese men?

Letters And Numbers:
Let's call the derail over and move back to the original topic of the thread, if anyone else has anything to add. OP, I think it's safe to say that both men and women can be, and are, attracted to men of all sizes, including obese men.


Lotta people have a lot of preferences. Sure, you're not going ti be everyone's cup of tea, but there are plenty of people, of all genders, that like different shapes and sizes.

Especially on here.
1 year

Are there girls who like obese men?

HRHB15:
It’s wild how people would pin someone as aggressive or malicious for what they say here. Almost like being labeled misogynistic out of the blue because someone doesn’t like what you say…

I hope that medicine tastes good.

I came here and stumbled on a three clown circus 🤡 🤡🤡

Have a great day!


I am confused that you think you've been misattributed before. But perhaps that's a conversation for DMs.
1 year

Are there girls who like obese men?

Letters And Numbers:
Ask for clarification if you are confused by what another user is saying, please.


I'm not confused by their words so much as I am perplexed by their conclusion.

And when I asked, "Are you saying?" I'm really asking, "Is this what you're going with?"

At which point OP can either double down or reorganize their thoughts.

This is not to pick at OP. I have no ill will towards them. However, I've seen time and time again where similar clumsy statements embolden the He-man Woman Haters(TM). One particularly memorable thread started with a different OP asking a similar question. It took very little time for a certain flavor of user to swarm the thread and start bashing women.

The OP realized what he did and apologized unprompted. Unfortunately, the damage had already been done, and the woman bashing continued for a few days after the OP apologized.

Once again, I do not think OP is being malicious. We've interacted before, and I never got that vibe from them. But all it takes is one clumsy statement for the gross people to latch onto things.
1 year

Are there girls who like obese men?

Misterelephant88:
I like obese men and obese women, but I see that there are more men who like obese men than obese women who like an obese man.

Munchies:
I am so confused by what you are saying.

Are you saying that there are fewer women who like obese men than there are men who like obese women? Because if so, I recommend you go outside more. Talk to people. Touch some grass.

Letters And Numbers:
If I'm interpreting correctly, he might be talking about his own personal experience, which is anecdotal, but a valid thing to talk about. No need to be rude. Not everyone always expresses themselves super clearly.


I'm not being rude. I am being very blunt.

When you say things like this, it feeds into the narrative that women only like guys with a 6 pack. This is hardly true, and it paints women as vain and men who are not fit as being straight out of luck.

And in fat fetish places where there is already a narrative among men that most women on here only want women, it's not great.

Also, OP is not a man. Not sure if they are still using they/them pronouns tho.
1 year

Are there girls who like obese men?

Misterelephant88:
I like obese men and obese women, but I see that there are more men who like obese men than obese women who like an obese man.


I am so confused by what you are saying.

Are you saying that there are fewer women who like obese men than there are men who like obese women? Because if so, I recommend you go outside more. Talk to people. Touch some grass.
1 year