Phreak wrote:
…Which I have been mulling over time and time again. I decided to finally come out of the closet with it and I hope I don’t get bashed to hard by everyone on the site.

Let me first say that I m a female FA, I do not want to gain myself; I just like to see it happen to other women [sorry guys], but I’m not a lesbian. I am usually a lurker on this site and never speak up because, well, only guys want to talk to me. I love the site’s picture and stories, and the few good people that don’t hate me for some strange reason.

But here is my problem, and I’m sorry if I start a war about it on here, or if it’s already been covered:

Don’t some of you feel bad about over eating and getting totally obese? I mean, there are people starving out there in third world countries and Africa or whatever, saying how people are dying of starvation.

I just find it a little weird that sometimes I get off on finding people with big bellies, feeding themselves until they are totally stuffed… but some days I feel like maybe what I have a fetish for is wrong. :[

Does anyone else know where I’m coming from? Anyone else feel this way? Is there a way I can stop feeling bad about the starving people but still enjoy seeing people over feed themselves? Like I said, it’s an internal conflict with myself, and I wonder if anyone else feels the same way and their thoughts or reassuring words.

I know I can’t end world hunger, but feeling bad about people starving and getting turned on by people stuffing themselves is now confusing me to the extreme…

[Again, sorry if I rubbed someone the wrong way. I didn’t mean to.]

herb wrote:
Do you think the food or money would go to third world countries otherwise?

Indeed, like, I wouldn't have a problem going out with someone slimmer, of course, but... I am just not going to be able to satisfy them there, in the bedroom, and I'd rather not let someone down and waste their time. =/ Odds are that they'll want it, and it's an extremely reasonable desire for them to have. I know it's not the primary key to the relationship, but it is an important part of it for so many people, and the likelihood of me being with someone who doesn't value it isn't so likely. They love it, you know? The connection, the intimacy. I can't make my body do something if the chemistry/etc isn't there, believe me, I've tried. =/

okapi wrote:
The fashion world is dictated by gay men who want their models to looks like young boys. Some, perhaps most, women apparently misinterpret this, thinking that men in general want women to look like young boys. Statistically, women want to be thinner than men want them to be.

Fat women are more likely to have had sexual intercourse than thin ones, research has found.

In a study of 7,000 women 92 per cent of those who were overweight had slept with a man.

The figure was only 87 per cent among those of a "normal" size.

The research, carried out by the University of Hawaii School of Medicine, contradicts previous results which suggested that larger women had a lower libido, while thinner ones were more likely to be sexually active.

It was based on the sexual histories of American women aged 15 to 44. A Body Mass Index (BMI) of 25 was chosen as the cut-off point between being normal and overweight.

bbwsweetienorcal wrote:
Though I second what the last poster said, about it depending on the relationship and level of the rub I STILL have to rate it at like, an 8. Pretty darn intimate. If someone I didn't know very well just came up to me and started rubbin' my belly I'd probably give 'em a shiner.