Claire sweeney's big fat diet

Wow! =o She definitely looks much better afterwards. Funny how it's supposed to induce thoughts of "Oh no look what all that eating has done! :o" but we all think the opposite. smiley
16 years

Who doesn't wet your whistle

Good thing I NEVER go shirtless if I can help it then. *laughs*
16 years

Who doesn't wet your whistle

Ausfeeder wrote:
I'd like to add, people you chat too online and get along with, then get ignored on IM, don't reply to your messages if you haven't spoke too for someone, like just askin' how they are etc. smiley


Oh heck yeah. smiley
16 years

Origin of hatred

Well, I meant more that we absorb things a lot more readily when we are young, but just because we're older, doesn't mean that the absorption stops. =o Constant bombardment... the whole 'fat people are acceptable to hate on' thing is a big part of that, I think. It can be thrown around all over without anyone batting an eye. =/
16 years

Origin of hatred

juicy wrote:
I think this is a big question, and has some varied answers.


Indeed, which is why I am trying to discover as many as I can to decipher this dreadful puzzle. smiley Ties to womens liberation? Curious. Did they see fat as too... too much of something that a man would want, and that a skinnier figure was a form of rebellion, perhaps? Economic trends... katsujinken provided an explanation for that which makes clear sense. smiley

Moonchild wrote:Another thing is that people don't like to think too much, so they like to have standards, even for things that are not intrinsically good or bad. A spot is picked on the fat/thin spectrum and everything else is wrong. See also: fashion, music, etc.

I don't think this is a recent hatred, I think it's just the redirection of the same archaic hatred that we've allowed to consume us for centuries.


Those are very interesting points. Humans like to keep things simple, and it seems humans always need something to hate. We outlasted predators, and now we turn on each other.

I was looking as to a reason why the hatred seems almost instinctual... I think the answer is that humans, especially when young, are capable of absorbing more off society than they normally aware of. Society subtly tells people of all ages that fat is wrong and they integrate that feeling into themselves without really noticing that they've effectively been brainwashed. Similar things happen in different societies, but the subtle social brainwashing infects every single culture. Which is why... different cultures think so differently regarding instincts, an example being of how different cultures find certain appearances attractive. =o
16 years

Origin of hatred

So... it looks like the origin lies in the 40's to the 60's then. I did hear about the 'Twiggy' craze that went on in the 60's, but just one model... that can't be the main cause of it all, surely? =o
16 years

Origin of hatred

I was just wondering exactly where the hatred of overweight people came from, precisely. What really started it? As we know, in days gone by, people didn’t seem bothered by it; some even admired extra weight, but nowadays the hatred and ridicule given to those who are overweight borders on the fanatical (and often crosses that border). It’s utterly ridiculous and doesn’t actually harm others. What amazes me is that despite its inoffensiveness, the revulsion seems almost naturally instinctive in so many people. =|

But I am interested to know the origin of this hatred, and exactly how it spiralled upwards from there into the self-esteem-rending, socially-isolating, anorexia-causing, stigmatising disaster of today. =o After all, if we know the cause of this, it’ll help us to understand it more and better counteract its effects upon the general populace and those we meet. smiley

I did happen to come across this article today, for example:

independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-wellbeing/health-news/revealed-why-slim-people-dislike-the-overweight-459459.html
16 years

Rolls or pot bellies?

Hmm... rolls, I think. They look fun to grab and look nice to feel. smiley
16 years

Any video gamers

*clasps hands together* Ah, video games. I've been playing them almost daily since I was around 6 or so, starting with Alex Kidd in Miracle World for the Sega Master System and onwards. I always was a Sega kid though, having the SMS then progressing to the Mega Drive/Genesis afterwards. Then I got a Game Boy, jumped to the N64, then to the Gamecube and over time I got my hands on a GBC, a GBA, a PS1, a PS2, an XBox, a Nintendo DS, and a Wii.

That said, nowadays I'm mostly a retro gamer, playing the old classics via emulation and getting to experience the old Nintendo ones for the first time. RPG's are my favourite genre, as well as anything involving Sonic the Hedgehog. I don't mind trying a bit of anything, except sports, horror, or wrestling games. I'm a Pokemon fan too- it actually led me to internet contact for the first time. smiley
16 years