It took a long time for my arms to start getting chubby. I've put a couple of inches on them since I started, though I still want them to be thicker. They have gotten nice and soft, though.

I'm also starting to feel rolls on my neck.

It wasn't until the last 30 or 40 lbs before my sides began to widen out, I began to grow boobs, and my back began to chub up. I think it's pretty common for a guy to be all belly for a while.

Just PLANNING a weight gain diet is sexy to me.

This isn't quite the same as a partner, but I confessed to my brother about my sexual feelings regarding gaining weight. He told me he thinks I should at least stay the size i am and even get fatter if it'll make me happy.

I almost came out to a co-worker a few days ago.

i don't know if there are many chicagoans here, but i work down in the west loop and i enjoy going out to lunch. if any FFers are interested in meeting somewhere, i'd be up for it.

While i bought a scale about 18 months ago, I rely much more on a measuring tape.

I don't have a real weight goal, although the guys I see online whose bodies I admire are just over 300 lbs, maybe 40 lbs heavier than me. My belly is about 51" around now and I like the idea of being able to say I am four-and-a-half feet around (three inches from now).