Foremost, just use a fish that doesn't smell fishy. It's the oil that smells like fish; the oiler the fish, the more pungent the smell.

There's a reason Tilapia has exploded in popularity over the last 10 years. Basically tastes like nothing and assimilates the flavors you cook with it. It's also why head chefs at high-end restaurants outright refuse to cook with it, for the same reasons with the lack of fish flavor.

Flounder and catfish are not nearly as neutral as Tilapia but are super mild and readily available, as are rainbow trout and haddock.

Lots of acidity – typically from lemon juice or vinegar based hot sauce kills most fish smell as well.

I didn't allow this fetish to dictate who I married. My wife was very skinny. I told her about being a feeder. She thought the whole thing was creepy and disgusting. She claimed she would NEVER get fat. And I left it at that - she's into things that I'm not.

But she's always been a huge foodie. And nature ran its course and here she is literally doubled her weight. She still can't get into the kink part of it. But that's OK.

I'm a firm believer that putting the bug in her ear about not caring about her weight initiated the self-fulfilling prophecy. And being a good winer and diner introducing someone to the joys of gluttony is not that hard of a thing to do in a loving natural way. Don't have to be all slimy and pushy about it.

Everyone has aromatase; it's a common enzyme. Those that are obese have more of it. Get a hormonal panel done and I guarantee your E2 and Test numbers are screwed.

It's hard to believe there are all these stories that have 75,000 views but only 10 likes and 1-2 comments. Either the views are distorted in some manner, this is the most unengaged community or the stories simply suck that bad.

I can see how it could potentially not be; but I firmly believe it's paraphilic for probably 90%+ of the folks on this forum. No doubt. Becoming obese in its intrinsic nature is causing some harm to the body and most seem to actually get aroused by the thought of their unbridled urges causing that harm along with even being aroused by other shaming them for causing that harm to themselves.

Definitely strains of a death feedist and yeah that's a thing. Pretty extreme.

It reminds of this girl I see every day at work when walking to my car at lunch. She spends her entire lunch break chain smoking and gorging on fast food in her car. The windows are barely cracked, car running. She's gained so much in the last couple years. She seriously looks like she's aged 10 years in the last 2 years. Just sits in her car destroying herself.

Aromatase is found in fat tissue. It converts testosterone to estrogen. The more fat you have the less testosterone/more estrogen you'll have.

Many obese men actually develop and need surgery for gynecomastia their estrogen levels are so high they start developing breasts.

Go to your doctor and they can prescribe you an anti-estrogen prescription like Anastrozole (Arimidex) or Letrozole (Femara).

Same with my wife. She'll say things like "I can't get any bigger than this, I'm watching what I eat now." But then an hour later she'll say "Man, Burger King sounds so good." She knows I'm a feeder and knows exactly what she's doing. It's then fun to see her laying amongst a spread of fast food trash in a food coma and ask her "Are you still watching what you eat?" 🤔

I prefer big fluffy rolls, double bellies. But my wife's is one giant beach ball. I'm curious if it will ever get a major hang or rolls – it simply keeps inflating like Violet Beauregarde. 🔵

The balance comes in learning to let go. Obviously control is an inherent component of feederism; but if your grip is too tight it will drive you insane.

Years ago I'd get angry when pouring my time into a large fattening meal and she didn't pig out, frustrated when bringing home late-night sushi and she says she's not that hungry and gives 3/4ths of it to the kids.

The balance comes in identifying this is a marathon and not a sprint. Her bored snacking, desire to eat out will grow over time.

It's not heavy cream funnel feeding 3x a day; if you've found the partner into that then congrats because they're one in a million.

For most, it's a little overeating over years and your girl will balloon into the slothful manatee you've always wanted. 🕒📅