23 ftm need a bestie who will gain with me and let me infodump about my hyperfixations

BlxxdyKawaii:
I’m looking for besties/net pals/whatever that I can gain with and record my progress. Clear warning, I will brainrot about Gravity Falls, Zelda, and TF2. I also accept random ass memes as a form of socialization, I’m not picky. I’ll do that too. Being able to talk on discord is a bonus.

I really need to watch gravity falls already, I've heard it's really good but I was more of a Phineas and Ferb kid rather than a gravity falls kid so I didn't watch it growing up
8 months

Your ultimate fantasy?>

My ultimate fantasy would be to have some magical potion that would allow me to gain 1,000 lbs instantly, and that it would wear off within a couple hours. I've always wanted to know what it would feel like to be that weight, but I don't have the balls or hell even the resources to commit to it
8 months

My girlfriend wants me extremely obese

Cenere:
Me and my girlfriend share the same fetish and she is the feeder and im the one who gains.
In a year I gained almost 45kg and now I weight 130kg, and my weight stalled, even though im getting visibly fatter without gaining actually weight.
She always said to me that she didn't want me to get any fatter because it would've caused many difficultues, but now she offered help in any situation.
In these days she said that she wants me to weight at least 220kg and im 187cm tall.
Should I go for that?

SumoSized:
Honestly that's some really good progress, all I can really say is do whatever feels right to you. If you're afraid of running into health complications or difficulties then don't commit to that goal, instead just take things step by step and every 25 lbs or so ask yourself "do i want to keep going or have a I reached my limit?" And go from there.

Also it's not unheard of for your body to stall, or for you to look fatter while not gaining any weight. That's currently happening to me because I've lost some muscle at the same rate that I've gained fat. Just take it as an excuse to eat more calories and you'll eventually break from it

Cenere:
Like to give you an idea of how big she wants me to be is a little bit less than how big juicy jacky is right now.

She said she would love to see me unable to climb the stairs.

If that's what you want to, by all means go for it. But you don't have to feel like you're committing to that. Just listen to your body it's not uncommon for people to set crazy high goals and run themselves into the ground and give up because their body can't cope with the crazy change
8 months

Fun reminders of your weight at work

Raven:
I noticed that my back has been hurting a bit when I bend over to vacuum at the end of my shift. I have to sit down in a chair to clock out after I clean up for the day because my lower back hurts. Today I was huffing and puffing just walking the vacuum back to the other side of the room. It felt like I had ran a bit. xD Made me happy though, that just means I'm getting fatter and out of shape since I mainly sit now at my new job.

Honestly that's so real, I've started getting out of breath from things that didn't previously wind me, which feel concerning and comforting at the same time
8 months

Fun reminders of your weight at work

Chubby Cow:
I can get winded going up hills & stairs. It’s easier for me to walk than to run. Running just gets me very winded, very quickly.

Having a full belly at work, really makes it easier to feel my fat jiggle.

My fat thighs & belly hang will chaff if I don’t put fabric between them.

My under boobs & belly hang fold can gets sweaty. Plus I can feel my belly hang being lifted up by my thighs if I walk.

Ha I'm not quite that big just yet but that sound great. I definitely get the feeling about being full though, I feel so small when I'm on an empty stomach
8 months

Fun reminders of your weight at work

Funnily enough I already have a new story. I just got a manual wheelchair in for a repair that had an anti roll back device (basically the patient sits down and the brakes unlock, and as soon as they stand up the device locks the wheels to avoid the patient falling over when transferring out of the chair). The fix was real simple, some bolts had gotten loose and the maintenance guys at the facility refused to touch the chair because of liability or something idk. But regardless I tightened up the bolts and replaced the missing ones. And when sat down to take it for a spin and make sure it was working properly, I sat down and stood right back up but because of my weight I managed loosen the tension in the cables enough that it's not locking when I get up. Mind you I don't actually know what the weight limit on the device is but apparently now I officially exceed it. (Luckily it's an easy enough fix, I just have to adjust the cables so there's more tension in them again)
8 months

Things you notice as you get fatter

SumoSized:
Since I've been skinny my whole life a lot of things still surprise me. I don't know if there's a better way to describe it but I'm simply not used to my own body being in my way when I move. Right now it especially noticable when I reach down to grab things and especially when I tie my shoes. Like I'm not to the point where it's difficult or anything I just have to reach slightly more than I'm used to. I can only imagine what it'll be like when I'm 100+ lbs heavier

Glitter Jelly:
Same here! After "just" a 20 lbs (might be more by now, as I've been avoiding the scale for the last few weeks), I find it's harder to get my Dr Martens boots tied up without sitting. I'm getting a bit out of balance and find it very unsettling.

My thighs were already large to being with, even at a much lower weight, because I've been obese for most of my adult life and my skin seems irremediably stretched.

My legs are already almost as large as the were when I was obese (I know because I've had to measure my calves to buy compression socks), so I hope the fat will stop accumulating there soon otherwise I'll be even more bottom heavy than at my highest weight and I don't know if I'll be able to find pants.

It was already really hard to find any in the past because my waist was much smaller than my legs.

Yeah pants are always annoying to find. Even when I was still skinny I had disproportionately bigger thighs than my waist so whenever I'd find pants that fit my thighs they'd be too big for my waist and even with a belt they looked all bunches up. Ironically since I've started intentionally gaining weight my pants have fit me better because my waist is starting to fill in more. All I can say is just keep searching around until you find the perfect brand that actually makes pants that fit you
8 months

My girlfriend wants me extremely obese

Cenere:
Me and my girlfriend share the same fetish and she is the feeder and im the one who gains.
In a year I gained almost 45kg and now I weight 130kg, and my weight stalled, even though im getting visibly fatter without gaining actually weight.
She always said to me that she didn't want me to get any fatter because it would've caused many difficultues, but now she offered help in any situation.
In these days she said that she wants me to weight at least 220kg and im 187cm tall.
Should I go for that?

Honestly that's some really good progress, all I can really say is do whatever feels right to you. If you're afraid of running into health complications or difficulties then don't commit to that goal, instead just take things step by step and every 25 lbs or so ask yourself "do i want to keep going or have a I reached my limit?" And go from there.

Also it's not unheard of for your body to stall, or for you to look fatter while not gaining any weight. That's currently happening to me because I've lost some muscle at the same rate that I've gained fat. Just take it as an excuse to eat more calories and you'll eventually break from it
8 months

Inflation tips

SweetBeanBelly:
Well as the post says it traps the liquid/air into your most stretchiest areas. Your stomach doesn't have as big as a capacity as your intestines do, which is why you clear out your colon tract with an enema. So you'll have ample room for air or whatever else you'd like

It forces the air into one area, forcing your belly outward! It's why I'm able to get my belly the way I do. The belt does wonders

Ah okay i didn't realize the belt was that effective at keeping air in. I'll have to give it a shot sometime
8 months

Inflation tips

SweetBeanBelly:
Awesome thread! Here's rapid fire advice

- Always do an enema/douche before inflating with air. Every. Time! You have a lot more waste in your guts than you realize, many pharmacies have enema kits for under 10 dollars. Once you're nice and cleared out, air is more easily accessible to your body, reduces cramps too

- When starting out, fasten a belt a little higher up than your belly button. This will allow the liquid from the enema/air to be contained within your intestines. Your intestines actually swell up much more than your stomach organ itself, so training them to expand is crucial! Hence why enemas are very important

- Use lots of lube! Personally I use coconut oil or Vaseline. Use rubber latex aquarium tubing as well vs the hard plastics. I've hurt my bum so much using the plastic tubes 😵‍💫

- Once you're cleared out, and hooked up to the air, don't push all the tube in at once. I learned that as you release gas it makes it much easier to slip the tubing inside!

- As the inflation progresses, be sure to give your belly plenty of rubs (again I use coconut oil or Vaseline). It helps the air settle. As your lower belly begins to swell, raise the belt up very very gradually. Slowly filling your belly like this will get you huge, trust the process 👌👌

- While inflating if possible, lift your arms above your head/elevate your arms in some way. Expanding your diaphragm is crucial, helps you breath better and gives your insides more room to stretch. I usually hold onto my shower curtain holder, but don't hold onto anything that may break easily.

- Also, listen to your body! Inflation isn't as scary as people imagine, if your stomach or intestines were ripping or close to popping that feeling would be unbearably painful and you'd stop inflating before that ever happens.

- Be consistent, and have fun!

What's the point of the belt? I haven't really dipped my toes in inflation but I've always been curious to try it
8 months