Xenonprincess:
Generally breeding is more of a biological urge that most of the population gets (not all but definitely a majority). Read almost any romance novel and the idea of "breeding" is present. Big bellies are very sexy in this community too. Most women are socialized to be (as well as sometimes naturally are more) submissive. Men especially when interacting with women in this sort of context feel entitled to sexual interactions so women who are dominant are less likely to put up with that sort of behavior. I don't think it's more common in the fetish, just more common on forums.

Greentrees8733:
Here to drop the entirely unsatisfying answer of "it depends".

As Munchies explained, people's experiences with fetishes vary. I'll add that IMO and IME, whether a fetish is "permanent" or not has very little to do with the fetish itself, and is more about the person's interest in the fetish.

If you only developed interest in this fetish as a result of hypno or similar files, hypnotherapy might be able to help you move on from it, if that's what you're looking for.

However, asking this question in FF (or in any feedism space) is prooobably gonna skew the answers you get. Survivorship bias, ya know?

Premier654321:
Figured something out yesterday that I’ve wanted to try for a while. I got a box of Jif Portable Squeeze Creamy Peanut Butter - 20oz / 4ct. Four squeeze tubes of peanut butter. This is 3040 calories, 256 grams of total fat and 336 percent of my total fat daily value. I put these four squeeze tubes up against my space heater set on the highest heat and fan speed. While waiting about 10 mins for them to warm up, I chugged three pints of beer, then, one by one, started picking up each tube of peanut butter, and was able to suck down all 4 tubes in about 6 minutes, chasing them down with my fourth beer. The feeling was so hot to be able to drink down that much fat while hammering the beer at the same time.

Baronbeta:
It’s still new to me, and I’m not interested in extreme obesity, but perfectly fine with gaining weight (both fat and muscle).

I’m addicted to femdom joi, and a few dommes have some files that train someone to associate food with arousal. I haven’t done a deep dive yet, but I am noticing that I feel really horny lately when eating bigger quantities, especially if I’m indulging in a sweet (cookie, muffin, etc.)

is this normal for everyone here? Does this ever go away? Am I already in too deep?

Munchies:
As far as I know, most fetishes don't leave. Sometimes, you lose interest in a fetish, or it becomes less intense. Other times, a fetish will come and go. I know I have some that are like that.

I wouldn't worry about it too much. So long as it isn't disrupting your life, then you are fine.

Baronbeta:
It doesn't impact other areas of my life. I still exercise, successful and productive at work, spend quality time with the wife, etc.

I'm just eating more and finding myself aroused by it. What if my slim body gets plump? It sounds arousing yet scary at the same time. I'm just in a weird place right now, I guess.

Baronbeta:
It’s still new to me, and I’m not interested in extreme obesity, but perfectly fine with gaining weight (both fat and muscle).

I’m addicted to femdom joi, and a few dommes have some files that train someone to associate food with arousal. I haven’t done a deep dive yet, but I am noticing that I feel really horny lately when eating bigger quantities, especially if I’m indulging in a sweet (cookie, muffin, etc.)

is this normal for everyone here? Does this ever go away? Am I already in too deep?

Crazyfool:
Having a bad day or something? These answers aren’t aligning with my questioning, and instead of asking me questions for further clarification it seems like you’re being a fair bit condescending. As a neurodivergent I’m not always capable of reading the room but you’re giving me some icky vibes. You even abruptly cut off other people who were making attempts to communicate and be helpful.

MickRidem:
You're asking if you should adjust insulin levels to gain weight.

Munchies is very knowledgeable, and correct in expressing the dangers of doing this.

If you're asking how to gain as a Diabetic, her response to make sure you're leveled off and healthy first, is also correct.

These may not be the answers you were looking for, maybe you wanted ways to "cheat the system"? It appears that way to me, and perhaps that's why the answers seem blunt and opposing?

I've been following Munchies for a long time, and she truly doesn't want anyone to be in danger.

PurpleJade:
Probably the moderation of the website. Threads with toxicity are taken down or locked easily and it sets a precedent for much of the rest of the website that it’s not welcomed. The flow of the forums at least seems to be relatively slow.

Munchies:
Have you discussed this with your wife?

Baronbeta:
I have not mentioned that this is a fetish that seems to be increasingly arousing to me. Maybe i's too soon and it'll eventually go away? But I thought the same about femdom and it's only gotten stronger over the years.

I've mentioned to her that I want to 'bulk' up and add more muscle mass and will eat more as I am tired of fasts and being too slim. I have not mentioned that I'm okay that the bulking includes fat as well.

Yet she's always so sweet and encouraging about eating sweets. Not junk food per se, but wholesome cookies, ice cream and pastries from Whole Foods we typically have in the pantry. It may not be garbage food, but it is very caloric and as added to my BMI.

Munchies:
You need to sit down and have an honest conversation with her. One of the other site users made a handy break down of how to do this. Give it a look.

loradayton.com/2022/01/26/how-to-have-the-kink-talk-with-your-partner/

Baronbeta:
Thank you for sharing. This was a good read. I always appreciate in any fetish community the candor about the pros and cons to embracing one’s fetish and emphasizing concern for significant others. So, thank you.

She’s aware that I want to bulk up and understands with that there could be fat gains. I just need to tell her I don’t mind the inevitable fat gains. I don’t want her to be a feeder; who she is now is more than enough to make me rounder.

Any thoughts to my other question on the impact on the public area and how much weight would be needed to engulf a few inches of my penis? I understand everyone is different, but would love to hear opinions and experiences.

Crazyfool:
Having a bad day or something? These answers aren’t aligning with my questioning, and instead of asking me questions for further clarification it seems like you’re being a fair bit condescending. As a neurodivergent I’m not always capable of reading the room but you’re giving me some icky vibes. You even abruptly cut off other people who were making attempts to communicate and be helpful.