Bbwchaser21:
Not sure why that would be a problem, if the member is on the list you know what's expected if you chat or if they are not on there it might dissuade them from asking for money as mods could add them with chat evidence

Bbwchaser21:
Hi people

Seems there is a lot of emphasis on sending gifts whether explicitly asking or alluded to after a small amount of chat, does anyone partake in this and does it satisfy anyone?

Just curious really, I see the thread about it at the top of the forum that's locked advising against it

Morbidly A Beast:
I wanna be carried like a princess 🥺

Tleo1995:
I'll start off with saying that I'm working with several mental health providers to help with the issues and I'm making progress with it.

The problem I'm having now is that I've been depressed/anxious lately and it's had a significant impact on my appetite. I get up in the morning and I get excited about being able to eat and work towards my goal body, but then as soon as it comes to trying to make food or decide what to eat I have absolutely no desire to eat. I was wondering if anyone has had this problem and if there was anything you were able to do to help with it. I'd like to put on weight but at this point I would like to at least maintain the weight I have. I've seen suggestions of smoking weed however that's not an option for me as I'm in the job hunt and have to be able to pass a drug test.

Munchies:
Glad you are getting help. Be safe, love. Kink aside, you deffo need to get some nutrition in you.

I have a sibling who is recovering from anorexia as well as dealing with bipolar disorder and ADHD. So sometimes eating feels like a chore to them. When that happens, they drink their calories instead. Their go to is Ensure, but you can use something else.

Cassiepup:
I struggle with a lot of that too, minus anorexia. Do you have any other recommendations besides Ensure? Drinking my meals seems like the only solution to when eating feels too difficult for me.
I also struggle with GI issues so I'm sometimes just too scared to eat in case I'm bloated for 6 hours afterwards... Shakes may be difficult for me because of a sneaking suspicious on lactose intolerant 😔 I just kind of deal with it though because cheese and ice cream are my vice.

I got super depressed last fall and have lost 40+ pounds because of periodically just not eating. I'm the thinnest I've been in years and even though I'm still fat I'm not happy with it. I had finally accepted my body and felt comfortable gaining/maintaining...

Snivvels:
You should also consider *what* you eat. There is tonnes of research on how the body processes food. (Mostly to help people diet ironically.) Eat some fats fairly obviously. But excess carbs also get stored using different mechanisms, so have excess carbs too. And if you don't worry about your health you can consume products containing Fructose as this gets processed in a different pathway (IIRC.) I believe that in the US at least 'High Fructose Corn Syrup' is added to loads of stuff so is hard to avoid. (Someone correct me if I'm wrong.)

Kx500:
I have always been a feeder and into larger women.

Nothing has turned me on more than seeing a slim fit woman turn into a big, thick, luscious curvaceous goddess. Her fitness dissapearing under layers of beautiful, soft fat. Seeing an already beautiful larger woman also add some extra sand to her figure has also been a massive turn on.


However in recent times I have been told by a plethora of people that I myself am remarkably underweight and that I need to thicken up myself.

One person told me that I need my own personal feeder! Another began expressing the changes they would love to see to my body and that it would help me become more attractive. My ex girlfriends have all told me they would love to see a thicker version of me.

Having said that I am at odds whether or not to go down this path.

I'm sure many a person on this forum has been in the same position.

Can anyone offer any form of insight into this

Ultimateaaron12:
So I’m really skinny with a fast metabolism and desperately want to put on weight I still don’t fully understand how weight gain works but from what research I’ve done it takes about 3,500 calories to gain a pound let’s say I wanted to gain 1 to 2 pounds a month would I have to eat 3,500 a day every day for that month to gain the full pound or will it add onto my weight in a shorter period of time

Morbidly A Beast:
I’ve never had a body image issue but sometimes I have a very intense frustrating horny desire to become absolutely huge these periods never last long I get really really stuffed once or twice and it never accumulates anything it’s when I least anticipate when I make the biggest strides.

I’m not sure if this relates to what some have expressed here and not sure if it just an aspect to our kink or what even is that

Snivvels:
My Mrs has recently lost a lot of weight and now has a bit of body dysmorphia. It's like her brain needs time to catch up with the change in reality.

Good shout regarding standing in front of the mirror and calling out something good. I'll suggest that to the Mrs.

ChubuffElly:
Hio, I'm very anxious to write about this but here we go.

For a very long time now I have had difficulty with my own body image. I love gaining, the lifestyle and I'm definitely happier but.

When browsing on here or whereever else I can't stop comparing, pinching and padding myself down. I know this might be a general problem but I was not sure if it fit there since it is very much fat related. Being trans might also add negatively to the issue. I'm worried that no matter how much or where I put on weight it's not going to be enough.

Has anyone else felt this way and has some advice on how to ameliorate this terrible mindset?

Munchies:
I'm not trans, but I have body dysmorphia. For those who don't know what that means, it's when you have a distorted view of what you look like. Mine isn't so bad right now, but it used to be terrible.

I used to be underweight due to having a health issue. I hated how I looked, so I started gaining. However, even when my scale and clothes told me I put on weight, I kept seeing my old underweight body. On top of all that, I was in an abusive situation and couldn't get therapy.

What worked for me was standing naked in front of a mirror and telling myself something I liked about my body. I kept it up until I liked what I saw most days.

Enas:
Munchies i didnt know you suffer from it, im really sorry to hear that :c

I see that you have developed a coping mechanism to deal with it. I thought that perhaps i could help you with sharing some material relevant to it. I havent read them fully (looked the first pages of them) but i think they might prove helpfull because i saw they examine it from a psychoanalytic point. And psychoanalysis is what is needed here more than anything.
(i hope the Links work this time!)

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And here is some explenation of how psychoanalysis can help, in case youre not familiar with it:

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While I appreciate your offer of assistance, it is not needed for me. Maybe OP will get some use out if it

That said, don't offer link unless you know exactly what's in them as a general rule of thumb.