Are there any dominant feedees/gainers?

SumoSized:
I wonder if the size of the feedee plays a factor, I'm a switch so my opinion may be biased but I feel more dominant as Im currently more muscular and just a hair over 220, but I could definitely see myself being more submissive as I got bigger and less mobile. I feel like by the time a feedee gets to immobility it would almost be impossible not to be the submissive one as your entire life would be dependent on your feeder. Though those are just my thoughts


It depends on the dynamic. If you've ever seen an episode of My 600 Lbs. Life where the person does not want to cooperate with losing weight, you'll see it's not unheard of for the immobile one to boss everyone else around
1 year

What i expect from heavy cream?

Shereds1988:
If you consume a large amount of ice cream in a short period of time, you may gain weight quickly, but it also depends on your body's absorption. www.nutritionaspect.com/drinking-heavy-cream space waves


This is funny to me. This article praises all these things about heavy cream while emphasizing you should only have moderate amounts
1 year

Struggling with the plus sized body image

ChubuffElly:
Hio, I'm very anxious to write about this but here we go.

For a very long time now I have had difficulty with my own body image. I love gaining, the lifestyle and I'm definitely happier but.

When browsing on here or whereever else I can't stop comparing, pinching and padding myself down. I know this might be a general problem but I was not sure if it fit there since it is very much fat related. Being trans might also add negatively to the issue. I'm worried that no matter how much or where I put on weight it's not going to be enough.

Has anyone else felt this way and has some advice on how to ameliorate this terrible mindset?


I'm not trans, but I have body dysmorphia. For those who don't know what that means, it's when you have a distorted view of what you look like. Mine isn't so bad right now, but it used to be terrible.

I used to be underweight due to having a health issue. I hated how I looked, so I started gaining. However, even when my scale and clothes told me I put on weight, I kept seeing my old underweight body. On top of all that, I was in an abusive situation and couldn't get therapy.

What worked for me was standing naked in front of a mirror and telling myself something I liked about my body. I kept it up until I liked what I saw most days.
1 year

Girls heavier than guys

Prey987654:
I love IT. Being havier than my husband or other men in my life.

My husband is round about 100 lbs lighter than me an it's a turn on, that he dominante me if he want , although he is lighter.

Sureley the mainstream prefers small, skinny girls , but in real life there are a lot of men, that love bigger woman.
My husband says , a woman has to be soft, chubby, warm and an a litle bitt weak ( by can't say no to sweets for examble, or with lower muscles) outside and in her soul.
A man has to be strong and hard outside and he hast to have INSIDE the talent to controll a woman, without her recocnizing it, independent from his size.
How weak is a thin or normal man, that can't stay behind his fat woman because of the mainstream opinion. Many stupid people think , fat girls only have to date fat men or fat men only have to date fat woman. But I think , these guys often have a relationship without deepness.
When the mainstream is aloud to tell you, WHO you have to love, you are lost!


I love this for you. I am so happy you found the love of your life.

But I am going to gently push back on the "have to" thing. There are many ways to be a man or a woman in a happy, healthy relationship. These relationships are just as valid as the one you are in.
1 year

Just want to meet a feedee i can feed online

Enlargingssbbws:
I just want a feedee that is not scared to get fat so I can pump her up


I regret to inform you that feedees are not balloons.
1 year

Fake friends or just over reacting?

Morbidly A Beast:
Oh the good ol Cheesecake Factory, overpriced stuff that you pay 3 times as much you can get at Applebees! I am absolutely flabbergasted when people mention it or something like Olive Garden or Red Lobster as something fancy… clearly don’t get out much lol Cheesecake Factory does have really good cheesecake but the other food is nothing to write home about imo

it’s them probably trying to show how they had a good time and wished you were there, I don’t know your friend dynamic or anything but I know food/going out to dinner/getting drinks has been one of the few things we get together to do, and especially nowadays being that I’m 2 to 4 times bigger than the Guys I hang out with it’s something agreeable that isn’t to strenuous so long as the table doesn’t fight me


Hot take, but Olive Garden isn't even good. It's like they season with salt.
1 year

Fake friends or just over reacting?

Ditzy:
Maybe its time you did something to increase your income?
I remember having no money and living in a van.


And if that's not an option, it's good to restructure what you spend your money on.
1 year

Fake friends or just over reacting?

Angelgluttony:
So a few of my friends invited me to the Cheesecake Factory and I’m so jealous because I couldn’t go because it’s just too expensive for me, and upon telling them that they decided to start sending me pics of all the stuff they were having. Does anyone else get jealous when friends do stuff like this or is it just me? Or am I just over reacting? And this isn’t the first time they’ve done this. But I feel like I’d be wrong if I told them to stop mentioning their outings knowing that sometimes I may be unable to join.

Munchies:
Have you had an adult conversation about the situation with them?

Angelgluttony:
I have spoke up about to a few times but I’m not sure they take me serious. I have goofy friends and I too can be silly at times but it’s like if someone’s seems uncomfy with it and they mention it I’d stop and wouldn’t do it again.


It sounds like you have not had an adult conversation with them. Sit down and talk to them - face to face if possible. Tell them your feelings in a non-confrontational manner. Their reaction will tell you your next steps/
1 year