Boops Boops:
Flirting is now harassment.
Munchies:
It can be, and I am shocked that you were unaware.
I remember this one job I used to work at. This was in person before the plague. We had a high turnover, so there were a lot of male new hires who came through.
I got hit on a lot. It was gross. It was creepy. I felt so unsafe. One time, a supervisor in another department started hitting on me because he liked how I filled out my clothes (I was dressed modestly, but I am still a curvy woman.)
I reported him to HR, and he was fired shortly after. I found out through the grapevine that he would hit on his subordinates a lot. Several women had reported him, but nothing was done until he stepped outside of his department to hit on me.
I've worked in HR before. Once in a call center and once in a University. I can promise you that you can be disciplined if you hit on someone and they report you to HR. I've seen demotions, suspensions, and terminations.
Please tell me that you aren't doing this to your coworkers because that is classifiable as sexual assault.
And yes, this happens to men too. I had a work buddy who's female boss kept hitting on him. Woman would not take no for an answer. It nearly became a lawsuit for creating a hostile work environment, so the company fired her.
5 months
Thehungryone:
Its hard to say. I have a degree health, wellness & fitness & studied 3 years in a dietetics program (Ironic I know) and I have read tons of peer reviewed, double blind studies on tons of health related issues. Lifestyle & genetics play a big part, reducing stress helps a ton, sleeping enough, getting enough micronutrients & water is important, not using tobacco products & drinking helps to keep you healthy as well. Even having great oral hygiene will help reduce your chances of a heart attack. The point of being too heavy to be healthy will depend on the individual. Id say take a good look at his family, what health problems they have had, what type of diet & lifestyles do they have, & that will give you somewhat of an idea of what he might be susceptible to & adjust from there.
His family medical history is pretty good outside of alcoholism(he doesn’t drink). There are some issues with his dad’s hips and knees, but I think that is really from his time as a roofer.
6 months
Karenjenk:
I "helped" an ex expand his Moobs.
BC pills really moved them along.
He go so that he would only go out in public wearing loose clothes and a jacket or a tight undershirt and a baggy jacket.
Estrogen in guys can do really amazing things as far as changing body type. It also makes them gain weight overall. Some men respond to this more than others. But my man... it was amazingly ridiculous.
He also got lazier and didnt exercise anymore.
in every way this is a good way to make a man change.
Did the birth control change his mood in any way. And how mush did he take
6 months
My husband at 362lbs. At nearly 4 times my size, it is bliss just to ride all that fat😍
6 months
Hey...
Long story short I married the man of my dreams, who when I simply said I like hefty guys (he was a slightly plump 190lbs to my 215) and told him about feedism he went hog(lol)wild.
At the same time I started losing weight due to my a1c (although I have always wanted to be thin).
Ngl, that contrast of him gaining and me losing made me horny 24/7. I just loved the feel of his rolls of fat getting bigger and bigger as I got smaller and smaller. I was on cloud nine.
He is up to 362 now to my 105. Ngl, I just look at him now and get a little wet. The fact that he workouts out daily (power lifter) and that I feed him pretty clean, with heavy cream mixed with protein powder being the mainstay when he is on his yearly gaining cycle, I think has allowed him to really only have high blood pressure that we keep in check with meds as a side effect of his 160 lbs gain in 3 or so years.
He has already started drinking a quart of cream because he wants to get to 400 by Halloween.
I guess my question to y’all is how long can one gain like this until health issues arise? Or stay as active as he does?
I told him that he is plenty big for me, but he has 💯 become a feedee and does not want to stop. I just worry that might be to big and have told him so. He did reassure me that he will stop if he has health issues, but tbh I kinda doubt he will at time. He is sooo into this now.
Any advice?
6 months
Does it feel like you have gained?
1 year
Anjou:
My fiancé wants to do a rapid gain before our wedding in October. He really had no health issues from his 50lb gain over a few weeks last fall he told me last night (which was confirmed by his annual checkup, but the wheezing and heavy breathing he did made me afraid af for him at the time he was drinking over a quart of cream a day)and seems to really becoming more of a gainer again(but with healthy food like nuts and whole grains) since I went on Wegoy after we got engaged in April and am really getting thin for the first in my life. And since we are both really getting turned on by the contrast, I might ok a rapid summer weight gain with heavy cream
Munchies:
Some advice from a feeder that's been there before more than once.
Make sure he's eating healthy overall.
Make sure he's getting exercise.
Treat this like a marathon and not a sprint. Take regular gaining breaks.
The most intense weight gain session I've done was a constant stuffing session for a month straight. He got fatter fast, but it was hard on his body. Rapid weight gain sessions work best is short spurts.
Yeah. The cream thing is just for a bit when we do it now.
And he still walks a couple miles a day and is doing a 20 rep squat program. So right now I think a fair amount of gains will be muscle, which is also hot
1 year
Pluviophile:
All of the people I've talked to are into a size contrast, which has always made me really happy because it's absolutely one of my favorite things.
Like you, I'm also really small/petite, so I relate in the same examples!
Anjou:
I am still 156. My DREAM is to be your weight. Your legs look amazing!!!
Pluviophile:
Ahh oh my gosh, thank you! I'll be honest when I say I haven't achieved my look in the healthiest (or safest) of ways, so provided you do so in a healthy and safe way (which it sounds like you are - I LOVE hot yoga!), I wish you the best of luck!
Welcome! I love hot yoga now since the wegovy makes me so cold!
1 year
Pluviophile:
All of the people I've talked to are into a size contrast, which has always made me really happy because it's absolutely one of my favorite things.
Like you, I'm also really small/petite, so I relate in the same examples!
I am still 156. My DREAM is to be your weight. Your legs look amazing!!!
1 year
