The way i have done it is to start one step at a time, like feeding is the first stage, talking about gaining while feeding is another.

Eventually you can get to the point of intense roleplays and fantasises from funnel feeding to immobility weekends for example (not moving for a weekend and having a feeder just fatten you for that weekend like your helpless and love food too much).

Also try to do it with someone a few times to build up a bond between you. eventually it might be a relationship

added you on snapchat.

I'm not able to send money for food but im more encourager and can provide creative ideas and recommends places to gain weight on a budget.

I'm a Devonshire feeder so sadly not that close

I live 15 miles away

As much as i do like to point out when someone has gained, i never use the word fat. But instead i use alot of adjectives and "you look amazing" or "sooo good" to hint the same point. The only thing i miss is actually feeling the other persons gain while complimenting them. Just to feel the awesome them