Having sexual desires or fantasies is normal, no matter what they are. Kinks don't really *mean* anything objectively. Psychologically our brains just fire off some synapses that connect some specific thing with our sex drives. We don't have much control over that.

What humans tend to do though is experience internalized shame, anxiety, and personalization of their fantasies, hence your question.

Your fantasy is not a reflection of your value or worthiness as a person. It *would* certainly help you to explore and question your desires more deeply; in a curious, non-judgmental way, so you can learn why they work the way they do.

Humiliation of some kind is very common in almost all sexual spaces. So long as you learn what you do like about it, what your limits are, respect others' limits, and engage in it consensually and safely for all parties, you're in the clear!

I'm aware of this. And I'm tired of getting notifications of it because I make it abundantly clear that I don't want *any* comments on my appearance, due to the overwhelming disgustingness of them. That's why I'm asking to have them disabled entirely. I want *prevention* and *proactive* features, not reactive.



I've never used a service where I couldn't edit captions on a photo I uploaded, or a title when it was required. This can be done on literally any other service, large or small.

The obvious solution might be to employ optional albums and sorting.


Thank you for putting them on the list, and I hope we can get some kind of update on them!

I don't want comments on my photos or videos. Ever. From anyone. I would like the option to disable these entirely.

Plus the ability to edit the caption would be very helpful. Some are just outdated, and I don't want to re-upload the photo.

I love blackmail stories!!

This came up a few times in chat recently and everyone went wild for it so I'm going to share a couple of recipes here that I think you'll enjoy!

Nutella: littlespicejar.com/homemade-nutella/
White Chocolate Nutella: 4you-withlove.com/2015/02/white-chocolate-nutella.html

Nutella is really simple to make. It really just is blended hazelnuts and chocolate with sweeteners. It does require a food processor or strong blender.

My personal recommendations to make it really truly worth it are to spend the money on good baking chocolate and double-boil it to melt it correctly. Save money on hazelnuts by buying them whole, then shelling, roasting, and skinning them yourself. Your house will smell amazing! It's more labor intensive but is really worth it. This year I'm going to try flavoring a batch! I get about 14oz out of each batch linked.

The white chocolate version is even easier but you'll need almonds in addition to hazelnuts.


Star crunch cookies: thebigmansworld.com/healthy-no-bake-chocolate-peanut-butter-crunch-cookies-vegan-gluten-free/

As for the star crunches, even if it's "healthy" they still taste just like you'd expect so modify to taste! I also recommend keeping them frozen (And maybe use a mold if you have one) because of the coconut oil.

Enjoy!

You would not *believe* the number of messages I get that are "thanks for checking out my profile" BUDDY I probably didn't even mean to, and if I did, I can't *see* anything without reading it and you getting a notification; it doesn't mean a darn tootin' thing

Holy heck! no idea how I missed that before.

Pretty sure we already know the answer, unfortunately.

I really love concepts like this! Or opening surprise Throne gifts on-stream and it's something *very* erm... fulfilling in an immediate sense.

The E-clair universe by Cinnastix on DA is incredible stuff if you don't know about it!

I love elements like this! Like gosh, of *course* they like me as I am and just want to see me healthy! HEAS, no-bad-foods, anti-diet culture, etc... all the while their reassurances that my sudden extra bulkage isn't in fact, a bad sign of my progress!

Little do I know!

If this happens, or if you don't want that person knowing you're viewing them, you can go to "my blocked users" and then you'll see an add button there. So long as the username is formatted correctly you'll be able to!