Iridescent Pearly:
Thanks for the advice your right. You know what I think Im gonna feel it out. I would love to see my self grow. So i think ill gain 20lbs and see where it goes from there. Thank you so much for your kind advice!
I think that's the best way, especially as it means that if you're unsure if being heavier is for you then you don't have someone else kinda muddying how you feel by encouraging you to keep going or at least stay stable. You instead can focus how you feel in yourself. Good luck with it!
2 years
I kinda stayed about 200lb, but starting HRT I dropped a lot of muscle and replaced it with fat. Sooo, in about a month a half I went from vaguely chubby to totally outright faaaaat. Let alone how my fat is kinda getting redistributed around. It's kinda amazing and encouraging honestly, haha.
2 years
FF Team:
Hi all,
This is something that is already on our to do list. We tend to update the site in sections so when the profiles are due to be looked at again we will look to add this Trans (Male) and Trans (Female) as options rather than having Transgender as a catch all summary.
Do bear with us!
Thanks,
c00kie
FF Team
Can't wait!! Thanks!!
2 years
Munchies:
Sure, the trans experience is much more than transman and transwoman. But it would be nice to give more options than "transgender" and "no gender".
It is, so, I understand they can't list every trans identity, but like, most trans people are either trans masc, trans femme or non-binary. Just having an "trans other" would still acknowledge their transness if they want to display it, but also acknowledge it doesn't fall within the more common categories.
But it is as you said: Calling someone "Transgender" as a gender is kinda useless if you want to know who you're talking to, as it isn't a gender. It's just means my Assigned Gender At Birth (AGAB ) doesn't match my current gender.
2 years
Heya,
I understand why "transgender" is listed as a gender, although it kinda opens its own can of worms, but could there be "Trans Masc", "Trans Femme", "Trans Non-Binary" and "Trans Other" breakdown so the gender identifies not only some people are trans but also their gender.
2 years
Like about...19ish? Then I thought I was out of it when I was 30 because it was kinda weirdly wrapped up in gender envy, then about a year later realised actually still super into it.
2 years
CuteFarmer:
You suggest there are so few women on this site because of behaviour from men?
Yes. Thanks for the demonstration.
2 years
Munchies:
So, it's not as simple as some people in this thread are making it out to be.
To be honest, the read I get is a very bitter man who is upset at not having a partner and so wants to make it this "well, it can't be my fault or just how it is, it's women's fault!!". Like, how is it a sane take to write such a silly misogynist idea on a fat fetish website? It just kinda seems like a super incel perspective.
2 years
Just that kinda realisation I'm back to stuffing as hard as I used to when I was 250lb two years ago while currently about 200lb, with most of it kinda going to my belly super hard. Not "damn, I'm fat", but definitely "damn, I'm gonna get so fat..." haha.
2 years
I'd say the only trans specific advice I could kinda give is the more you're on HRT (and the more your bloodwork reflects the gender you're transitioning to), the more that any weight you gain will go to the "right areas" that'll add to the figure you want. Besides that, I think general advice is really things that'll help, just not sure if I'd ever use the term "survival tips", haha. Gaining and being fat should be fun, not, y'know, like survival.
2 years
