Welcome!!
Its always nice to have new members.
I would ask the admins to see what is allowed and what isn't.

Weight gain takes time and you will have fluctuations so don't stress out over it.

You are over thinking.
I like when a server asks that question.
My BF is 350+ and I weigh more than him so its obvious a table not a booth.

I think so.

Not from any work people because I have been fat most of the time the newer employees have been there.
When I started in the stables working horses I was 250 ish.
My boss noticed and said something to me about my weight gain and I told him the truth I was trying to get fat.
He didn't know what to say and said I don't get it but OK as long as you work and do your job.

It happens sometimes but it doesn't bother me all that much.
Years ago I was at Target shopping and in the checkout in front of me was a lady and her grand child.
The child said "look Grandma that lady behind us has a butt in the front".
She apologized profusely and I said kids say the cutest things so no need to apologize.

I had been here 5 or 6 years and a member from here said he was passing thru my area and asked if we could have a dinner date.
He was very nice and we had a great time.
In total there have been three from here that I have met personally and each time was a great experience.
There was a couple in my area that contacted me and that didn't go well at all.
Get to know them here first before actually meeting up might be the best thing to do.
Just be careful.

Yeah it is annoying I agree.

I guess I need to be more careful.
I think you are right Enas.

I'll be more careful when asking questions next time.