It seems to me that people who become extremely obese must have challenges when it comes to holding down a job.

How do they do it?

Or do they not have a job? Are they supported by their families or spouses or...? Or are they independently wealthy?

Any stories about how you or people you know have dealt with this would be appreciated.

It seems to me that people who become extremely obese must have challenges when it comes to holding down a job.

How do they do it?

Or do they not have a job? Are they supported by their families or spouses or...? Or are they independently wealthy?

Any stories about dealing with this about yourself or others you know would be interesting.

Just added "Shlaraffenland"

www.deviantart.com/drfeeder/art/Schlaraffenland-by-Dr-Feeder-1143897066

Thanks for the kind words.



Just haven't got around to it!

By popular request I have just posted some stories I wrote a long time ago:

www.deviantart.com/drfeeder/gallery

Starts out not wanting to gain at all but has to diet and hates it.

Then she meets a feeder who encourages her to quit dieting and gain some. She's very conflicted at first, maybe goes back to dieting a few times.

Then she gains a noticeable amount of weight, learns to love it, and eventually gets to 5.

I don't know, but I do know some men get off of the change, whether it's a gain or a loss.

Apologize and help him get healthy. Feeling guilty is not a priority.

One of the best parts of being a feedee is never having to diet.

It seems to me if that's your motivation, your goal should be to get fat enough to qualify for bariatric surgery but not _too_ fat for bariatric surgery. Not that you should necessarily have bariatric surgery, just that it's nice to have the option and it's nice to know if you reach that target you'll never have to diet.

Fat enough for bariatric surgery would be 40 bmi. Too fat is 450 pounds. Someone 5'7" tall, for example, should have a goal weight between 256 and 450 pounds.

Is this a crazy idea? I don't know, somehow I like it.

I remember having thoughts and feelings about feeding and gaining when I was a child. Maybe these feelings were sexual, but I didn't recognize them as such and it seems to me now they were different than sexual feelings. All I can say is there was something magical about them. It was also a bit frustrating, because there was nowhere to go with these feelings.

After adolescence it was different--the feelings were definitely sexual.

I don't know if these childhood feelings were anything like being an asexual adult, but somehow they remind me of each other.