I’m very pear shaped so my butt and thighs were the first places to start jiggling when I walked. I love the feeling. When I started to feel my double chin jiggle that’s when I knew I was getting g to be a fatty
7 years
Thanks for loving the curves but also supporting the decision to lose weight. The men on this forum have kept it solid.
7 years
When my jeans start pulling around my butt and thighs, I get those creases from where the fabric is stretched too tight.
7 years
Rad, thanks for the website!
8 years
ChunkyDreamer:
I feel since I've had to bury this desire of mine and I have difficulty admitting this desire that is makes it difficult for me to have the authentic intimacy that I crave.
If I don't at least try to go down this road, how can I ever be my authentic self? If I do go down this road and like it, how much of my health am I willing to risk?
Mm, I feel this on so many levels. I've been attracted to fat and weight gain since I was a teen but have always been too embarrassed by it to tell my partner. There's always that awkward roadblock where they can sense there's something missing and I'm not telling them. I've also gone for thinner more athletic guys (ones I am 'should' be attracted to by societal standards$) to try and suppress my desire.
At this point I haven't been seeing anyone for a few months bc I'm tired of having a mediocre love life. I've accepted that feederism is what I'm into and I've just been trying to explore that for myself.
I totally feel you on the wanting to gain vs wanting to be healthy. I love the extra weight I've put on in the past few years but I also love to hike and ski. I've been trying to keep it balanced fitting in vegetables and pizza lol.
Ah, I could go on forever about my back and forth on this fetish but its nice to know I'm not the only one who feels this way.
8 years
Love handles and underbelly all the way. Tits and ass are obviously great too but even thin girls have that to grab onto. I think belly and love handles are best bc those are the spots that remind me how much of a fatty I am
8 years
The munchies are real. It's as if my stomach becomes a bottomless pig when I'm high. It's also easier to ignore the feeling of being full. I'm so distracted by the taste/smell/texture of the food I'm eating that I don't even realize I'm starting to get way too full.
8 years
Snacking at work. There's always food available at work, whether it was cupcakes for a birthday or home made cookies someone shared. The calories add up and but I'm not doing any physical work.
8 years
It was definitely my preteen years when girls in school started obsessing about losing weight. I just remember being more intrigued by the 'before' pictures and the women's testimonies of how they got fat in the first place. I would pretend to be impressed by the weight loss around other people... but really I thought the people in the pictures looked better with the extra 40+ pounds.
8 years