Yeah…🙄

That’s an amazing goal and honestly, hitting 400 lbs is where the magic really happens. Coming from being a skinny guy my whole life, the biggest change I've noticed is the texture of my own body. You go from feeling bones and muscle to this thick, heavy layer of what I call "the dough."

Everything starts to feel softer and deeper. Your thighs start to rub together constantly, and you actually start to feel the pull of gravity on your belly. It’s not just sitting there anymore; it’s hanging and swinging, and you feel the literal weight of your progress every time you move.

When I was thin, I ate because I had to, but now I crave that stuffed, overfilled feeling. You stop caring about being fit and start obsessing over volume. Every new roll or soft spot feels like a trophy you've earned. As for the lust side of it, it becomes much more primal.

There’s something so intense about watching yourself and your partner grow, seeing the clothes get tighter and the breathing get a bit heavier. The softer and less "functional" you become, the more the turn-on grows. It’s a total transformation of how you exist in the world, and feeling that extra mass every day is just incredible.

Enjoy every single pound of it.

I definitely am! Back at my old job, my coworkers were constantly pushing food and snacks on me. This one lady used to keep my desk loaded with full plates all day long. That’s really when the weight started piling on fast. Six years later, and now I’ve taken the reins, doing it all on purpose now! haha

I would read it!

I would say any tight clothes, seeing the stretched fabric on her is such a turn on

Welcome to the club, man!
I totally get that 'growth pain.' The thing is that your belly is expand faster than your lower back muscles can adapt to the new weight pulling you forward.

Since losing weight is obviously NOT the goal here, here is how you handle the pain while keeping every single pound of that soft new mass

Your mom thinks you need to exercise, but what you actually need is 'structural support' for that new gut. A tight compression tank top under your clothes acts like an internal harness. It helps hold your belly in place so it doesn't 'tug' on your spine as much when you walk to Uni. It’s a lifesaver for the lower back.

That thing you’re doing with your glutes is actually a legit move called a 'Posterior Pelvic Tilt.' When we gain fast, we tend to arch our backs too much to balance the weight, which causes that sharp pain. You don't have to look ridiculous; just focus on keeping your pelvis level rather than letting the belly pull your spine into a curve.

Also, walking long distances with a heavy pack while your body is trying to adjust to 20+ lbs of new fat is a recipe for a blown-out back. If you can, switch to a rolling bag or leave stuff at the Uni. If you must carry it, make sure the straps are tight and high on your back.

And while you don’t need 'abs,' you do need a strong 'wall' to hold the mass. Do a couple of 60-second planks a day. It won't burn off your progress, but it will strengthen the deep muscles that support your spine so you can keep growing without the agony.

Get some high-cushion sneakers. It makes a massive difference when you're carrying extra weight.

Don't let the pain discourage you or make you listen to your mom's 'diet' talk. It’s just your body learning how to carry its new, softer self.

Keep feeding that appetite and just be a bit smarter about how you carry the load! Good luck with the journey to becoming a total hog.

yummy!

Wow, seems like a dream come true! if only I could meet someone like you in real life, haha!

in my humble opinion, better fatten up naturally by increasing portions, instead of pushing into yourself all those powders.

must say, didn't thought about mayonnaise as an ingredient for gaining, you give me an exiting idea! hahaha