Well I’ll definitely say that this was definitely a very interesting read! Even though I am one of those cases of people who had gotten into the kink by choice. And that there was a lot that I do agree with, I may not ever engage with this kink on towards anyone that I am dating nor do I ever want to make someone fatter (unless that is something that they want to do). But it is kinda fun to fantasize about it. I do still find the “thrill” from a stuffed tummy or finding a little bit of weight gain on someone a bit cute.

I can certainly understand from what you say that while there are no doubt some bad apples within the community, that doesn’t mean that we’re not a bad community overall, we are not all evil people trying to harm others. Even if there are those out there who like to think so.

Also if I read this right… are you referring specifically about THE “Sabrina SSBW”? Or went by other handles like “Hammy” or “theillusiveham” or something along those lines??

Interesting post because I do have talks with myself about this particular subject whenever it’s brought up.

Do I think that being fat is a choice? Well it certainly CAN be for some people. I know that there’s quite a bit of nuance for the matter of subject, especially if we are talking about genetics to thyroid things and other factors for how some people grew up being on the bigger side without having much choice.

However when it comes to doing something about it when it comes down to losing weight or choosing not to lose weight, that’s where it becomes a choice (heck I even just said so). Heck I’m fairly certain that people who are into the feedism community should know that we choose to have this particular type of preference.

As a dude who is into bigger women I can relate to say that it’s a bit of a pity that we’re getting into an era of the popularity of GLP-1s and how that we’re going back to the times of thinness is the pinnacle of health. Especially when I did felt like some people that I believed who embraced being plus size only to suddenly change and left some people feeling betrayed. Some people will argue that we got to this point BECAUSE of body positivity and how some also say that GLP-1s exposed some of the BP influencers as grifters. Especially now that it’s pretty much easy access for losing weight.

And look if some people have found their happiness from their weight loss either from treatment from a GLP-1 or not, then good on them I won’t shit on that.

I have ranted about how right-wing media often criticizes how the BP movement and treat it like it’s a bad thing and with their echo chambers that follow suit. But it’s also because I do worry that one day they might even push the envelope that one day being bigger or being attracted to bigger people may not be acceptable in society anymore. Oh especially if we’re talking about the Metabo Law in Japan that was started in 2008 and still enforced to this day.

It can definitely be worrisome to talk about the future, but it’s also rather fascinating at the same time. I guess we’ll have to see what happens in the foreseeable future. Especially for the sake of people like us in this community.

I’m not sure if you were around when we were talking about why people are mad about fat acceptance and body positivity. But one of the things that I mentioned is that most of the conversations towards the tolerance of fat people is associated with the LGBTQ and Liberal policies. And who opposes them? Conservatives and right wingers.

Yeah I do you are right that the most anti-fat biases who are against body positivity DO come from places of people who are against the Left think that anything woke has cooked up this generation. And if it’s not the content itself, it’s the people who do tell their truthful thoughts in the comments section.

While it can be true I also come to understand that not all conservatives think like this. I know that there are some people who never supported liberals but still tolerate a plus size person if that is their preference, or even if they are like so themselves.

So yeah while it is possible that some people who are tolerant towards fat people or try not to care so much despite their political beliefs. However the conversation about finding acceptance regarding of being fat and how the BP movement fell apart… it’s not looking so great.

And let me tell you something, it’s really difficult not to dwell on it.

Some people are saying that where about to live in a dystopia, and I don’t blame them. And that dystopia is run by right wingers who will gladly burn you down when you cross the line and “not be doing God’s work” or in other words don’t make them mad and a reason to criticize.

Alright I know I’m getting a little off-tracked here. In the end of the day I really am into plus size people or people that have a bit of chub in the tum. And I’d hate to one day wake up into a reality where that it’s not acceptable anymore and something like Japan’s Metabo Law ends up taking over the rest of the world because of people prioritizing health and thinness. Something that could be more than likely be backed up by the Right if society really is going in that direction.

That’s actually pretty clever!

Yeah I have heard about what had been happening over there. I’m sorry to hear that you fellas had been given a rude awakening because of everything that went down.

I hope that you can find yourself peace in the future. 🙏

Simple but effective, I like that. 👍

Well it’s nice to see that we all came to a conclusion and clarified what we were trying to get across. 👍 I even sent a message to Randi apologizing for getting carried away earlier.

For the sake of this I was trying to agree with what Randi was saying while also expressing my own experience and frustration with people who are narrow minded and don’t really listen/care what I say. Especially if we’re talking about something more political.

Oh please I’be had my fair share of people who think like this. It’s like they are trying to gaslight me by saying things like: “Nothing you say matters!” or “Support Conservatives/Republicans or be part of the problem!” along those lines when I am trying to sound like the reasonable guy in the room. Or even just being genuine is enough to make some people to call me disingenuous or a liar. Why? Because I’m not tearing down and burning something that YOU don’t like/agree with? C’mon now…

Heh, I feel like that I should start acting like a lawyer in comments sections now. 😅

Oh that’s nothing new that I’ve seen beforehand. I’ve seen comments like that all the time over on Snapchat and other socials. Especially when I am trying to defend someone or say something a bit more reasonable I still get people saying such ridiculous things.

Some people just don’t care and say such nonsense anyways, and even if you confront them about it they won’t stop. Because like I said they don’t care! Especially if it’s in a way of “spreading the truth” like if they’re some good Christian or something. But trust me, I do still find it very annoying that some people act immature or at best disrespectful in the way that Shadow guy commented.