Pursue your interests no matter how crazy they may be. Don’t get wrapped up into the day to day.

I hope she makes the most of it

Very nice update

Best thing to do is talk about the mixed signals. Like some of the above posters, surprise, I married a heavier partner who knows my kinks/preferences. She says she wants to lose weight but does the opposite. I would be bummed if she lost, but support whatever she ultimately wants to do. I’m waiting for the moment that you have had where she says “I want to be a fat, happy housewife” for you

It is what first got me into the feedism side of things. I enjoy that and body inflation for the same reasons many above have described

The end of an era

So sorry to hear that. DMs are open for you to vent

That’s very cash money of you. He’s a first class loser in that case.

Haha, yes, that’s usually what my partner says too, but I’m just not fattening her

Glad it’s going well for both of you minus asshat shutting her phone off. My partner is the same about saying “I need to go on a diet, I’m too chunky”, but then will doordash fast food and laze around the house.

My partner is a non-feedist and knows about my interest. She doesn’t want to gain weight as she has put some on inadvertently. She knows I appreciate her weight gain and support whatever she chooses to do.

She doesn’t want me to get as fat as I’d like to get, but wouldn’t mind if I put on weight.

I was definitely afraid to tell her about it, but we have a good relationship and I should’ve told her even sooner than I did