Fantasy Feeder

Have you ever been fed or fed anyone in public ?

BigBallBellyGirl:
I've both stuffed myself in public and been fed many many times. When I was gaining, my now-husband and I would frequently go out to eat after I had already stuffed either at home or on fast food on the way. We'd order multiple appetizers, entrees, and dessert, and I'd eat 90 percent of it. We'd be reasonably discreet, and he'd only hand-feed me a few bites here and there. It was most fun back when I was 300-325 pounds, because I was already fat enough to draw attention, but still small enough to see my belly visibly bulge out. Once, we caught a server's attention when he poked my gut, which had grown hard and tight from my indulgence. Good times.

Sounds like fun!

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Have you ever been fed or fed anyone in public ?

Thatguywhofedme:
Just wanted to know how many of you have experienced being fed / feeding someone in public

Whether it's in full view of anyone or in a more sneaky way

For me most of the times were in the back of a car, in a mostly busy parking lot and the thrill of knowing we could get caught was so exciting

Especially while my feedees belly was out, sauce around their cheeks while stuffing them until they can't get up from the back seat was such a turn on

My partner and I keep it more low-key out in public, but I do feed him. I hand-feed him and sometimes rub his belly. It's nice.

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[24m] struggling with feederism and partner’s [24f] weight loss – need advice

BoopieBop:
I just saw your initial solution and it is by far the best route. Things seem shaky outside of just the feederism issue with some of her comments as well. Couples therapy is the best route IMO. Theres nothing wrong with both of you wanting it to work out!!! Also remember to consult people outside of the fetish!

Enas:
Well, there is something wrong with him wanting it to work out, she is harmful to his mental health. And that's not going to change.

BoopieBop:
Well for a long standing relationship its not just so easy to drop it and say you're wrong no you're wrong!! Theres literally nothing wrong with purposing therapy. If she rejects that then it is something completely different.

Yeah, sometimes you can work shit out. Sometimes you can't. It depends on how willing both parties are. There's fault on both sides. Walking away is an option, but so is working it out.

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[24m] struggling with feederism and partner’s [24f] weight loss – need advice

BoopieBop:
I mean if you love them you'll stay with them. Peak fetish is nothing compared to actually having a connection with your partner. Be happy for them!

This is true. However, I fear they may be incompatible. He seems to put too much value on her appearance, and she seems to be both insecure and perfectly fine with cheating.

There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be bigger. She doesn't want to gain weight, and that is perfectly fine. It's one thing if all OP wanted was to feed her sometimes, but it seems he also wants her to change her body for his pleasure as well.

On the flip side of this, it's not cool for her to jump to the whole "I'll cheat on you" response. I get that she doesn't want to indulge his fetish, but the way she responded shows that she isn't trustworthy either. They might have found a compromise for his fetish, but there isn't a way to compromise trust.

I don't know what OP said to her or how OP said it, but it is clear as day that she has no interest in indulging this kink. OP would be wise in learning from this situation. You can date non-kinksters, but there's a way to do it. And this whole thing has been a train wreck.

OP, I cannot overstate the importance of talking to a therapist about your situation. From this small window you've given us into your inner world, I can see deep-rooted insecurities, shame, and maladaptive traits that will not serve you in navigating love and kink. Until you sort that shit out, you'll get nothing but repeats of this situation.

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