Beachside Farmer:
Bumping this for a reason. Block feature is ridiculous. I have a stalker snd that keeps making new accounts daily. They don't stay on this site for more than 20 hours. I have reported them but they seem to find a way back. Isn't there a limit how many times you can make an account over and over again?

How are we supposed to feel safe when we constantly see them stalk our page to see we are one? I have blocked probably 4 or 5 of the same accounts now!

Gushloader:
It troubles me to see so many of my fellow FA to be such abusive. This topic is very sensitive for me as my partner was in an abusive relationship, albeit not feederism-related it was traumatising nonetheless. As someone who helped her to overcome her fears and lack of self-esteem I can say, that as someone who wants to help a victim after the fact you need to be extremely sensitive to what, and especially how you phrase your thoughts. It is very easy to get someone hurt just because you said something. Remember that victims are vulnerable, and they get even more vulnerable after they understand what has been done to them. Never ignore cries for help. I am sorry if I'm unwanted here as a male but as said, the topic of abuse is very close to my heart.

Celeste2024:
Any submissive men into the same kink want to connect?

Gushloader:
Hi,
I have read it. It was a very nice story. Thank you.

Munchies:
Yo-yoing messes you up, yeah. Ironically makes you fatter in the long run.

JN_TumLover56:
So I have heard of that. But that’s also interesting of that last sentence too… wonder if Ms. Reiina knows exactly what she’s doing? 🤔

Munchies:
I think so. I remember when she posted to Youtube during her first weight loss, several commenters mentioned it. But those were her spicier videos and they are deleted off the site.

JN_TumLover56:
Yeah I vaguely remember that. But the last time I saw her YT channel has been wiped empty. Oh well then. I guess there are other platforms for people to post their content.

SumoSized:
I know this is a bit of a doomer post but with the whole situation in Iran seemingly bringing us closer to a war it's been on my mind. If the US outright declares war on Iran would obesity be considered a medical condition that could get you exempt from service? And if so what would the cut off be? Like at what weight would they say "oh they'll lose it in basic training" vs "this guy isn't even worth our time". I know a draft isn't very likely even if we do go to war, but it seems like in the last year or so the worst possible outcome for a lot of major events has happened. So my hopes for this situation aren't very high

If a feeder fattens you up without your consent, this is abuse. I would consider it rape due to the sexual element.

Struka0918:
Seconded. Consent is incredibly important in all sexual (and others!) situations.
I should also bring up that consent can be revoked at any time! So, while, if someone said yes to something initially, they could say “no” later on, and the proper thing to do is to stop. If they continue, that counts as rape, since the act is no longer desired.

A lot of people unfortunately struggle with setting boundaries or saying no, myself included. I still struggle with it to this day. If you’re one of those people— it’s not your fault. There are just some nasty folks in this world who should know better, but alas…
The advice I can only give to that is self advocacy. Work on yourself, understand your emotions, your strengths and weaknesses. I’m a naturally shy, soft spoken person irl. I practically quadruple check everything I say (which is mentally exhausting) because I’m afraid of being “rude”, (I also have autism— likely alters my experiences as well). Improvement may be slow, but having confidence can go a long way. Easier said than done, but I’d be willing to go into a more in-depth discussion on this (based around my own personal experience).

Speaking of boundaries…

Having them in your bio (not just here but on different sites) can (sometimes) help. Of course the real creeps will look right past them, but I think they’re still important to have. Can work in a way that you quote a line in your bio to them, say “hey, my bio/page explicitly says not to do what you’re doing right now, stop it”. And just draw a line.

Then you can move on to informing others about potential creeps as well. Safety in numbers! You only know what you know, we’re not mindreaders here. So if someone is dangerous, don’t keep it to yourself. Keep records of someone’s weird behaviour. Don’t forget it (and you do not need to forgive it either, even if the person has claimed to change, that is up to you).

I’m not the greatest at giving tips, sorry. Most of this has just been from other people I’ve been around. Being so shy even on the internet, meant I managed to avoid a lot of the creeps, even when I was younger. But I am going to follow this discussion anyways, and contribute in the ways that I can.

Stranger122:
from what she said her body has alot of trouble maintaining that higher weight so unless she was stuffing all the time she was going to end up losing some of the weight

Jigglephysicist:
I think people underestimate how hard it is to maintain a high weight for some people. You basically have to eat like it's your job, which can take the fun out of it.

Morbidly A Beast:
a sausage party is when it’s a bunch of dudes and no women.

engaging in non-consensual predatory behavior is rapey, the rapist, murderer, etc doesn’t see the harm in what they are doing.