The Wicked Pear:
Well, I go through a 3-pound block of cheddar every week, I'm looking for reduced sugar peanut butter marshmallows eh, no too much sugar

Munchies:
You can buy peanuts in bulk and make your own peanut butter.

Urchie:
That sounds fun but also like carpal tunnel

The Wicked Pear:
Well, I go through a 3-pound block of cheddar every week, I'm looking for reduced sugar peanut butter marshmallows eh, no too much sugar

S3ndh3lp:
Hey all! I hope I’m not the only one who enjoys playfully (or sometimes not so playfully) teasing their piggy, especially after a big stuffing/in clothes that used to fit. But I feel like it’s the same beats every time. You needle away at the fact that they’ve let themselves go, that only chubby chasers will date them now, that they eat more in one meal than most people do in a day, etc. but I wanna hit new spots for them~ maybe this should be posted in the fattening up forum, but I’m curious what other people’s go-to taunts and quips are for making your growing piggy blush~ or maybe you’re a feedee and have some insight into what makes you feel good in all the wrong ways, y’know?~

Munchies:
I don't needle my partner so much as I make matter of fact statements. Things I've said include:

"It's a shame you can't be on top. If you did, you'd have a pancake for a girlfriend."

"Queen-sized beds are kinda small for the both of us. It's like sleeping in a bed with three people.

"One of the benefits of having you as my partner is that I can use your shirts as dresses or tunics. Not your pants, though. I need two of me to wear those."

It's not about humiliation for us. My partner loves his size, and he knows I love him. It's a tongue-in-cheek kind of teasing. It's not necessarily sexy, but we enjoy it.

Voluptuouslover:
Very cute - I actually love these types of realistic and general comments being the best!

Sweettreatdealer:
Wow, the comments she was making are wild. I've had a similar experience, but not as extreme. Since I've gotten doughy a few friends have made joking comments.

One guy said that I "need to work on that gut" which was pretty humiliating, but did turn me on when i thought about it later.

Mostly people have started making comments about me getting soft, filling out, bulking up, etc. It's all subtle hints that they've noticed I'm getting fat. Also, I've noticed people calling me 'big guy' a lot more.

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UnSujetoSi:
Se que este sitio es en su mayoría ingles pero no se pierde nada haciendo un post
Aver si de los pocos habla hispanos que hay en el sitio web, tiene ganas de tener una amistad casual para hablar y pasar el rato

English Feeder:
My partner is in a wheelchair. But it was something she wanted years before it became necessary.
She enjoys me pushing her and taking her to restaurants and public places. We live in England and disabled access is available everywhere. Not that we use public transport but buses can lower there suspension. ( A few exceptions old buildings ) She has a made to measure bariatric wheelchair. We have found that the general public and staff are always helpful and accommodating. Holding doors. Finding suitable access. But regarding the general thread there are several ways of looking at it. If i was not accommodating in my partner's need for a wheelchair would she have chosen to loose mobility to where she needs a wheelchair? I have on occasion gone to the pub ( i like a ale ) i have had enough ready to leave a mate will say don't go yet let me get you another pint. It leads to what we call a session.I end up having a curry or Chinese maybe a kebab on the way home. End up getting home early hours. Wake up with a thick head. Was it my mates fault??? No....
Did i have a good night? Actually yes
If you apply that to the current thread everything is ok. We don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship. But i do agree there could be red flags. Everything in life is fine provided it's by mutual consent.

Munchies:
You didn't read the thread either.

The issue is not "fattening your partner so much they need a wheelchair." If both you and your partner have had open, honest conversations with enthusiastic consent on both ends, I don't care. You do you boo.

The issue is he did not do that with her. He made is extremely clear that he "convinced" her to do this. She did not want to do this. He's been subtilty manipulating her until she made her peace with her circumstances.

I'm not looking for subtext. I am reading exactly what he said. I am taking this man at his word without adding or subtracting anything that he's said.

Don't defend people just because you are trying put on a shoe that doesn't fit you. It ain't a cute look.

English Feeder:
Looks like you make a lot of assumptions . I can read by the way.
Lol

Munchies:
The more I talk to you about this, the more you make me legitimately concerned about your character.

Not saying you are abusing your wife. Not accusing you of anything like that.

But if you see blatant abusive behavior and just ... shoulder shrug it and say people are looking too deep into things, I worry for anyone around you that is in an abusive or toxic situation. It is clear to me that unless it's something overt, you wouldn't notice they need help.

Zampano777:
Sorry but you can’t Judge that. You confuse your interpretations with hard facts. Sorry, but you should urgently check yourself in your reviews.

Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t think bmi is an indicator of much, given how few conditions I have relative to what I should have given my bmi is 76

Yjpzsd:
I think its interesting that when I've spoken about this to friends outside the community, it's tended to be slender girls who have most enthusiastically supported my position vis. fat women being gorgeous. I think there is something to the grass being greener, people who don't feel the stigma of being fat themselves seeing through it more easily, maybe.

Mr Smith:
So many fat people around and most of them try not to be fat. I honestly wonder if people who are naturally slim are more drawn to this fetish.

Munchies:
Not sure, but there's something to be said about wanting what you don't have.

Plus, a lot of the top models out there used to be skinny.

Mr Smith:
I think there is definitely a separation between simple attraction to bbws and feederism where it's about the process as much as appearance it seems.

Munchies:
Yeah. Being attracted to bigger people is whatever. Tons of people are into that without it being a kink.

Feedism is more active. Feedism is all about wanting to get fat and/or fatten.

Yjpzsd:
Agreed, but I still think feedism, at least the soft side of feedism, is just the unrepentant pure form of liking fat women and not wanting them to feel bad about it. It's definitely the feedee's delight in eating and growing which gets my rocks off, much more so than weight gain itself.