I feel where you're coming from, I don't have kids yet, but I do worry about being a mom who is over 320lbs, in that I want to teach my future kids how to lead healthy lives and not miss out on important milestones like riding bikes or camping.
I got some good advice from a user on here, just because I eat and indulge, doesnt mean its what I teach my future kids, and there are so many recreational programs out there that my future kids won't miss out on things, they just may not do them with me.
Is it perfect? No, but I have a partner who is smaller than me, and is capable to do things fie/with our future kid. Will I have more serious limits/stopping points when kids are around? Yes, health is so much more important when folks are relying on you.
2 months
Late to the game here! I always wanted to wear a bodycon dress, and I actually kinda did last Xmas (it had sequins and ruching so it shiwed by body but didnt exaggerate my curves), showing my curves and it being short! Im thinking I'll try a Maxi dress this summer, longer and loose on legs, but no Sequins or fabric to hide anything behind!
I love seeing when fat folks have their pants/shorts under their belly and it noticeably hangs over 🥵 Also a tight tank top!
2 months
Ace Of Spadez:
Did the same thing yesterday. It’s sexy how portion sizes just keep getting larger and u remind yourself this isn’t normal or possible for most people.
THIS ^^ Especially around other folks for a direct comparison, I went to lunch with some friends recently, they each ordered 1-2 sushi rolls with miso soup and I ordered 4 rolls, miso soup, and some tempura... When I order that much alone or with my partner it doesn't feel like its so abnormal, but when all my food came out and took up way more room, it became super obvious 😅
2 months
I haven't had a doctor's appointment like this, but my doctor has been on mat leave for awhile, and before that I'd only seen her virtually since the pandemic... I have an in-person appointment in May and I'm definately nervous considering I've put on nearly 100lbs since I last saw her in person! (I'll definately hear about weight loss lol)
2 months
Having to physically move my fat- like when im reaching to a tall cabinet or leaning over the bathroom counter to get closer to the mirror, my belly is in the way hitting the counter unless I purposely pick it up and put it on top of the counter, then I can reach further/higher. Same with my boobs, moving them to see/do up waistbands/belts.
3 months
KlondikeBar:
One time at my job my leggings suddenly developed a hole between by crotch and thigh region. Thankfully it wasn't too noticable but I was still embarrassed about it.
I'm a bit reluctant to purchase expensive pants due to my chub rub curse.
XFat:
Just do it, you can always sew patches inside your pants to make them last longer (I do haha) and it's worth it to be comfortable.
KlondikeBar:
Did you sew it on your own or had a seamstress add the patch? I am curious how much it costs to do the latter.
i just did it myself with some patch fabric 🤷♀️
6 months
KlondikeBar:
One time at my job my leggings suddenly developed a hole between by crotch and thigh region. Thankfully it wasn't too noticable but I was still embarrassed about it.
I'm a bit reluctant to purchase expensive pants due to my chub rub curse.
Just do it, you can always sew patches inside your pants to make them last longer (I do haha) and it's worth it to be comfortable.
6 months
Not most embarrassing ever, but I was playing charades at a party recently with some new friends and I stretched my arms up to do an action and a bunch of seams loudly ripped, plus I exposed my belly briefly at the same time... I was beet red but thankfully no one commented.
6 months
Tempo - Lizzo ft. MISSY ELLIOTT
If y'all have never watched the music video for this song, go do it bc it's so fcking hot
8 months
I love chunky KitKats (lol), but during Halloween getting the mixed Ferrara pack (mostly Laffy taffy, sweet tarts, nerds, etc) bc some of those are so hard to find during the rest of the year!!
8 months
