Do you just appreciate the community?

Zowee:
Due to my career choices and highly unlikely odds of finding someone, Im forced to appreciate Feedism as a community and a fantasy.

I just appreciate the support some give others and the community fighting negative stigmas associated with weight gain. I kept trying to enjoy some aspects on my own even gained a lot of weight to try it out. But it’s not sustainable long term. At least I have yall to share my thoughts judgement free.

Those who found someone special good congrats you won the lottery!


Being very fat does not always fit your job, but you need to pay the bills.

But like anything you don’t have to able or even good at something to celebrate and be involved, it’s what you make of it that counts.

I love seeing what other think, how they gain, or how they enjoy the rounder among us. The scheming, the what ifs, the food plans, ect… plenty to discuss and indulge your thoughts on.
3 months

Does anyone here like to feel fatphobia? how to deal with it?

Like most I have experienced phobia in school from students, teachers. At work from employer and employee. Family on my case some meaning well, but not always. I have lost friends and partners as I got to big for them to accept. At now over 500 lbs, it also venues that do not have big seats ect.... so no I don’t like it much, but learnt to deal with it. I do not mind getting looks now, as I am very big so not unexpected.
3 months

How many feedees are making preparations for extreme obesity or finding a feeder?

If your a straight male gainer it is almost impossible to have a feeder relationship, let alone one to reach immobility sizes. Or that is my experience in life,.

So I work on it myself, any FFA your missing out, I may not have more that few hundred pounds to gain.
3 months

What is it about being fat that makes you keep on gaining?

It's the food yes but it also the wondering what will 20 lbs more feel like, where will it go to, and how bigger will I look. It the thrill of the unknown....
3 months

Tips for gaining & maintaining weight with low income?

Carbs , rice, pasta, potatoes ect….. and flavour with tomatoes cooked with spices into a pesto like sause, blend smooth with olive oil even add nuts, beans, or other vegetables, Top with cheese, and cream.

I sometimes blend all into a soup that I can drink, with bread and butter.
3 months

My biggest problem with my big fat belly

My belly and car steering wheel are at war. Some toilet cubicle are to small for opening the door to get out no belly room. Putting on shoes. But it's now wide enough to provide arm rests so bonus.

But mostly it’s too small.
3 months

Become morbidly obese? live a normal life?

TheUltimate323:
I'm 22, and I'm on my way to gaining weight. I only weigh 66kg now, but my goal is to reach 82kg, which would certify me as obese. I'm 165cm tall. My goal would be to weigh between 109 and 120kg, which would make me morbidly obese.

My question is, can you live a relatively normal life at that weight? Obviously there will be some mobility limitations, not fitting into some seats, having to buy large sizes, but that turns me on.
You know, living a relatively normal life?


Yes
3 months

Have a job outside the home when very big

I am interested in find if members have held down a job at an external to the home work place, if more than 500 or 600 lbs. What job industry full or part time, what was your max weight in that job, any particular restrictions or methods to make it work?
3 months

Fattest of your friends/family

The fattest in my family, by 350 lbs, weigh the same as my parents and older brother combined.

Have a few friend that was the biggest person I knew but now it’s me. One was about 480 and one 650, but he is down to 450.
3 months

Discord scammers

I just think your wasted your time, I was not born yesterday, now who the sucker.
3 months
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