Wtf are you on about?

I honestly feel like I'm having a stroke trying to understand what you wrote, especially in relation to this thread....

I got messages from OP because he read (and i use that word loosely because he clearly saw some words, got angry, and ignored the rest of my post...) another forum post of mine talking about why guys can't find women on here and they don't want to date or be a real feedee that pointed out all the nuances of how the site is used and the way women get treated and why so many are reluctant to entertain a relationsip with someone and I got a DM that basically amounted to his post here.

Dude is clearly not able to interact well with women on here (and i would guess irl) in a normal way and then wonders why the only people entertaining his conversations/ramblings are OF scammers...

Of course no one real wants to talk to you if you constantly jump to being angry that they arent interacting the way you want and you ignore chunks of what they say and cherry pick the parts that fit your feelings... Who wants to deal with that?

Not to bring politics into this space but it's like trying to talk to a maga type who doesn't actually listen to what you're saying, but listens for trigger words to freak out over... What person with even half a brain wants to deal with that?

I wouldn't say OnlyFans is a scam itself, but a lot of scammers use it as a way to scam dumb horny people

It just happens to work especially well in spaces like this where guys are super closeted and/or chasers, because the real women don't put up with their bullshit, but scammers will

I'm gonna just say I think you're making a lot of assumptions here, considering if you look at the data available for the political leaning of US States along side the states with the highest obesity rates, the most conservative are often also the fattest

Didn't think you were necessarily "ripping" on women on the site, but moreso simplifying and generalizing.

Wanted to clarify that while those circumstances do often exist (and might even be a norm) there is more variety and complexity to the existence of women on here.

And just to do the same for the flip side it definitely isn't all men on here that act the ways I described and some of the same factors for women, like social stigma, also apply to them as well.

This is a hard lifestyle to be committed to wholeheartedly 100% of the time. Even as someone who identifies as a feedee, my desire and ability to gain and participate comes and goes in waves and i can't commit all my time to being a fatty, so it makes more sense to find someone who enjoys this, but also shares other interests and chemistry so the relationship doesn't fall flat during those inbetween times

My 2 cents as a girl and feedee on here.

Some background:
I am not asking people for money on here, but also won't turn down a free meal if someone offers. I would much prefer a long term relationship with a feeder i can trust over a short term or quick feeding session.

Now, I'm not jumping into a relationship with anyone, but if I were to find a feeder that i clicked with i would totally be down for a relationship.

The reality of what I find:
The problem i find with too many guys tho is that the conversation is very fetish centric and 1 dimensional and i lose interest quickly.

On the inverse of what you're saying what i see from my side is a lot of guys who are too closeted to want to be in a relationship and clearly just want some *** material and then drop off quickly if they won't get that

This overall behavior i think lends to more girls not bothering to try getting into a relationship with a feeder because the trust and connection is never built

I see you all assuming they're just trying to make money or in a relationship already and while those are true in some cases, I think its a bit more complex than that.

With the way society treats fat and this fetish its hard for some people to justify a long term stay in it and that makes it hars to commit to investing in a life partner that wants this as a permanent fascet of the relationship

While I know other girls that would like more than just random feeding sessions paid for, these communities (here and feabie) don't foster that at all for us.

Additionally the fact that there is money involved means the community is often full of scammers just trying to take advantage as well

Its hard to get invested in someone who isnt willing to invest in you for more than this fetish and often gets objectified for some body charactersics and/or the kink they're involved in.

Relationships take time to build and imo this is a tough place to expect that to be happen

I mean that just sounds like most of the meals I have lol. Especially the stuffing sessions

I've had multiple people suggest bloating with stuff like coke and mentos or sprite and bananas to increase capacity.

Unfortunately, because I have some intestinal issues that prevent me from drinking that amount of carbonated liquid without immense pain from the gas that passes into and gets trapped in my intestines, I can't go this route to increase my capacity.

Does anyone have any other suggestions to quickly increase my capacity for my stuffing sessions without bloating myself and being in pain?

Pure lard lover!

That make's sense imo 😆

I think its the same thing here as what i see on grindr. The faceless profiles are varying degrees of ashamed of who they are and are hiding this part of their life.

Whether that be because they're married/in a relationship with someone "normal" and use these sites to get off to, either as jerk off material or as a way to find one night closeted meetups. And some are just straight up afraid to admit this is what they're into and lurk on the site being anonymous.

I'm sure there are people who are ashamed of their body as well... but in my experience that's *usually* not the case