Ditzy:
I'm still here just a lot fatter than when I joined.
Lol same!
And hello fellow olds.
9 months
Strayguard:
How did you guys become friends with them? Especially since in this day and age it seems like most feedees just want your money lol?
Torchcacti:
I never found that too difficult. When you just enjoy talking about any number of things, it seems like friendship follows pretty naturally.
Munchies:
That's pretty much the long and the short of it. If you put yourself out there and treat people the way you want to be treated, it's not hard to find people you want to befriend. Might take some patience, but you can find your people.
Torchcacti:
I guess if there’s anything else to say, it’s that as cis-men we are working at a deficit because of bad behavior so sitting back and being patient, like Munchies said, is the best policy, even if it feels like interactions are few and far between for a while.
Munchies:
Honestly, patience is good no matter your gender. Shitty people exist across the spectrum. And no matter how kind, interesting, or charismatic you are, not everyone is going to jive with you.
I like to think I'm a delightful person. Sure, there are people who can't stand me, but most people like me or are neutral to my existence. While I've found friends and lovers on FF, it wasn't immediate. Took me a few months to find my people.
Good point.
11 months
Strayguard:
How did you guys become friends with them? Especially since in this day and age it seems like most feedees just want your money lol?
Torchcacti:
I never found that too difficult. When you just enjoy talking about any number of things, it seems like friendship follows pretty naturally.
Munchies:
That's pretty much the long and the short of it. If you put yourself out there and treat people the way you want to be treated, it's not hard to find people you want to befriend. Might take some patience, but you can find your people.
I guess if there’s anything else to say, it’s that as cis-men we are working at a deficit because of bad behavior so sitting back and being patient, like Munchies said, is the best policy, even if it feels like interactions are few and far between for a while.
11 months
WarriorFeederNYC:
That doesn't give any of the new feeders a chance to feed anybody. I mean I told one of buddies from the UK what feederism is and he found a feedee in about 7 mins right by his home. He fed her and she wanted to do it again. In America I told him it is way different the beauty standard especially in NYC is what fuck up a lot of feeder and feedee relationships. In my opinion.
Munchies:
Babes, I've been in the game longer than you. I'm gracing you with free wisdom.
A fool and his money are soon departed. And desperation ain't cute. You wanna scare of the maidens? Because this is how you scare off the maidens. If you don't wise up, the only feedees that will give you the time of day are the ones that want your money.
Actually very generous advice. Usually people don’t just tell you this kind of thing, you learn by screwing up repeatedly. Save yourself some pain guys.
11 months
Strayguard:
How did you guys become friends with them? Especially since in this day and age it seems like most feedees just want your money lol?
I never found that too difficult. When you just enjoy talking about any number of things, it seems like friendship follows pretty naturally.
11 months
Strayguard:
Just a random thought that came to me. When you do an online feeding session are you typically friends with the feedee (or at least talk occasionally) or are you just throwing money at strangers? To me it feels like you should know the feedee a little bit before doing that but seems like that's not what happens.
It’s more fun if you’re friends, IMO
11 months
Howdy, not real confident about posting this, but here goes anyway.
I’m curious to talk to femme feeders (in the most expansive sense of “femme”) in a friendly, platonic way about fat and fattening. I’m a gainer and just kind of need to scratch the itch with someone else.
1 year
Chicago has great food and is big enough there should be other feedists around. Cheeper than other big cities.
1 year
A feeding pump schematic? Wow, I hope that’s commercially available sometime soon.
1 year
