Casual Gainer:
I grew up overweight/on the fatter side.
As a kid/teen it was horrible, but as an adult I found no one really cares.
The only comments I would say you really need to be prepared for is friends/family/cow workers, as those are people you'll regularly encounter.
If you're lucky, they're indifferent.
If you're unlucky they might be genuinely concerned but because they THINK they're being helpful.
If you're really unlucky though, they might be malicious.
In my case, I've managed to blow over what little response I got by saying something along the lines of 'I stopped caring and just want to enjoy things while I can' and even joke about how fat I'll get.
But then I'm from the UK.
Really, the only way to tell will be to gain and see the response. In your case, worst case, maybe be prepared to lose weight if it causes too many problems.
Personally, I've never been overweight, and the fact that I've now decided to gain weight until I'm obese would be even more shocking than someone who has been overweight in the past.
Although it may surprise them a little at first, over time they'll accept that I'm now obese and that this is and will always be my body.
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JN_TumLover56:
Long story short, you can live a decently normal life. You will have limits of course, and especially things that you might have to live without doing. But otherwise you’ll be fine as long as you get creative. 👍
Yes, obviously I know there are things I'll have to experience, like having to use more than one seat, having to buy clothes in obese stores, etc. But these things really turn me on. But what are you referring to when you say things that I will not can't do?
2 weeks
I've seen that there are many people into feederism, some of whom like it and are turned on by fatphobia.
In my case, I'm in the process of becoming obese, but this topic repels me a bit. I'm from Spain; there aren't as many obese people here as there are in the US, so it's not as normalized. In my case, I want to be obese, have a huge body, experiment, and be seen as such, but I want to be treated with respect and I don't want to receive criticism for it.
That's the only thing that scares me about gaining weight. Like I said, I want to have a really fat body and be treated and seen as such, but I don't want to be insulted or rejected for it. I know some of you might like this, but I don't. What do you think?
2 weeks
Thats sounds very hot.
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Well, I'm just starting my weight gain journey. I'm still at a normal weight. But my destiny is to be a very obese person. I work in an office, so I could become excessively obese without any problems. Perhaps the only effect will be that they'll have to give me a bigger chair. (Which really turns me on.)
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TheUltimate323:
Is that a problem? Literally my biggest fantasy is to be fat enough to not fit in chairs. That turns me on a lot. Having to use two chairs to fit my fat ass. Hopefully I'll achieve that one day.
MottiF:
Instead of hoping just do it! Eat occasionally. Eat everywhere anytime. Snack and push more and more food. Don’t think about gaining weight just eat. Hang out with fat people become their friend and learn from them. That’s what will make you bigger eventually
Yeah, I'm into it. Literally walking into a waiting room and having my butt take up two seats is something I want to experience. I get a huge turn on from that.
3 weeks
Johnxyz:
There is guarantee that you can stop gaining. I know of one average-sized woman who planned to gain 50 pounds and stop. She's now around 600 pounds.
What do you mean by that then?
3 weeks
TheUltimate323:
I'm 22, and I'm on my way to gaining weight. I only weigh 66kg now, but my goal is to reach 82kg, which would certify me as obese. I'm 165cm tall. My goal would be to weigh between 109 and 120kg, which would make me morbidly obese.
My question is, can you live a relatively normal life at that weight? Obviously there will be some mobility limitations, not fitting into some seats, having to buy large sizes, but that turns me on.
You know, living a relatively normal life?
SumoSized:
Honestly 109 kg isn't much, that's around where I am now and it doesn't really impair my mobility as much as you seem to think it will. I mean sure my endurance has been reduced from what it was 100 lbs ago and bending down requires a bit more energy than it used to but it's negligible. And I only rarely encounter seats that are too small for me (mostly old furniture from 100 years ago at my grandparents house). As for clothes I'm between a large and XXL depending on the brand so finding clothes isn't that difficult. Except for jeans but that's only because I have muscular legs so finding jeans that fit my thighs can be a pain.
Honestly I think you're working yourself up too much. The changes are slow and I'm afraid at the pace you're posting these forum posts you'll get burnt out from the lack of progress. Just take your time and enjoy the changes as they come. You'll reach your goals and hell if you find you don't like them then you can always lose the weight. There's no such thing irreversibly fat, it does get harder to lose weight as you get bigger sure, but it's not irreversible.
Yes, I understand everything you say. I am aware of that. But if I am 165cm tall, what do you think would be the maximum weight I could reach and still have a relatively normal life? I know this is a long term goal, but i want to have a finish goal btw.
3 weeks
Casual Gainer:
Honestly, the only way to tell is to just do it, guage the reaction and respond appropriately.
It's otherwise impossible to predict, unless it turns out we're actually in the Sims and you have access to their traits stats.
Yes, well, I guess at first they will be surprised by the change. But with time they will get used to my obese physique.
They will have to accept that I am now an obese person and that will be the forever that.
3 weeks
Is that a problem? Literally my biggest fantasy is to be fat enough to not fit in chairs. That turns me on a lot. Having to use two chairs to fit my fat ass. Hopefully I'll achieve that one day.
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