yea i totally get what everyone's saying about personality, obviously that's a key factor for me too. being chill, fun, and easy going who's funny and has a great sense of humor is an instant turn on for me, absolutely nothing better than a guy who can always make me laugh even when i'm in the worst of moods! i was just trying to see what everyone was into in terms of the physical, and i totally agree with everyone who's talking about the opposite thing, that's why i love a tall, big guy cause it's the opposite of me so i feel like we'd compliment/complete each other. could be cause my parents are a biracial couple so i've always thought the idea of opposites attracting is really amazing. just love the whole yin and yang effect!

i think i always kinda knew it cause i always took a particular interest in big people when i was a kid, but it wasn't until i was 16 and started dating a bigger guy that i realized how much i was physically and sexually attracted to it. now, those are the only kind of guys i wanna date!

i love big guys and i'm pretty sure all of my friends know it! they don't knock my preferences and i don't knock theirs

i'm a female feeder and fa of a normal weight but i have absolutely no food issues whatsoever, i love food! actually, i eat a lot and have a huge sweet tooth, i just don't tend to gain a lot of weight cause i keep pretty busy. but yea girl, you're not alone in being a normal sized but non-anorexic female feeder!

so this is just a general question for my fellow ladies on this site; bbw's, feeder's, fa's, etc. what type of guys are you girls into and why? as a feeder and a fa, i personally like them tall and big, but what do some of you lovely bbw's go for?

as a smaller girl who prefers bigger guys, perhaps i can shed some light on the question. in my experienc, bigger guys like being bigger because it makes them feel more masculine. although fat does slow you down and can make a guy more submissive, being bigger and stronger and more powerful can make a guy feel more protective and dominant as well, a historically male quality like how you said submission is historically female quality. men have historically been bigger and burlier and in my opinion, it's the bigger men who are the most masculine because they aren't concerned with things like appearances as that is a historically female trait. also, a lot of guys like being big and soft so a girl can have a nice big pillow to cuddle with; the like being a big comfy teddy bear.

i personally didn't really realize my love for bigger guys until i was about 16 and i started dating one. being a thinner girl, i'm sure it must've looked stranged to my friends, but i didn't care cause i was very happy. i never verbally "came out" to the literal extent, but my friends know from my dating record that i prefer guys with a little meat of them but they don't think any differently of me. sometimes even if a guy isn't big, i'll still like him if he has a good personality and what not and they maybe try to fatten him up a little (the feeder side of me), but i will always prefer a guy who has more to love!

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