If your wife were concerned about her alcoholism and wanted to cut back, but you though she was more fun and sexy drunk and just left beer and whisky bottles *around* the house in case she found them - what type of person would you be?

If she wants to lose weight, it's HER body, not yours, and even bringing in food that you know she'll have a weakness for is passively abusive. Don't be a jerk. Support her and her wishes.

Professional musician - piano, voice, some accordion, some guitar. I love rock and roll, but musical theatre has been paying my bills. My eyes are tired of looking at cut time.