Lurker123:
I love the feeling of surrender that comes with realizing I’ve blasted through another size and am going to continue getting fatter no matter what I do. It’s so much more fun to embrace it and take pride in gaining that it is to be shamed into someone else’s standards. Plus food tastes great and fat feels good. 😎
Keep up the good work lately 👍
1 year
Kitsune:
Ditto to HappyBigBelly that mass produced women's fashion is sadly low quality in comparison to men's fashion. Hence why I am opting for custom made clothing and BIFL brands.
I forgot about bras which reminds me there is a subreddit called r/abrathatfits! Your wife should take the bra test and find out what size she wears. She can also ask or look up threads regarding high quality plus size bra brands.
P.S The reason why I bumped this thread is because I am eager to share this Etsy seamstress that sells beautiful trousers and she allows custom sizing! The shop is called "AllTheVintageLovers." No, I wasn't paid to say that lol.
You’re quite welcome :-)
1 year
Anything showing true admiration and pride in one’s growing belly :-) And overall, the wider the waistline, the better!
1 year
Casually Walking:
So my girlfriend actually agreed to gain weight as long as we can find cute outfits for her to wear as she gets bigger. I really don't need any tip of helping her gain, I feel like taking our time is the best choice, I just don't know the first thing about clothes and much less plus-sized. We live in Alberta, Canada, if that helps
Sounds like the start of a fun journey as long as she’s willing to do it!
As a happy hubby to a pretty-much-lifelong big girl, I’ll tell you that clothes for larger ladies aren’t made as well because the material is thinner. My wife loves Torrid, but even their offerings tend to have rips and tears in it because of shoddy stitching. And grab every sale and promo code you can find for bras. They get hella expensive for larger cup sizes.
1 year
Sweetfattie:
The heavier you are, the softer a mattress feels, because you have more weight pushing down on it. You will also wear the mattress out faster, which is why models made for heavy sleepers tend to be firmer.
I would recommend a hybrid mattress over a pure memory foam model. Hybrids are cooler and more durable. Look for one with plenty of cushy foam over sturdy springs. That way you get both back support and comfort. Cooling features are a big plus if either of you sleeps hot.
Good luck on your bed hunt! I like a firmer mattress, so I’m afraid I can’t suggest any specific models, but I did a LOT of research on beds for heavy people when I replaced my bed last year.
Many thanks for this! It sounds like we’re on the right track, then, with our desire for the middle ground between too soft and too firm. I’ve been stuck with both extremes in the past and it’s been bad, ha. Main goal for the new one is to comfortably support about 520 combined pounds nightly.
I’m happy to see most of the newfangled brands these days seem to offer x-number of days to try it out after buying it. I presume they’d give a full refund if we end up finding it too soft or too firm?
1 year
So my wife and I are planning to replace our old, worn-out queen-sized topper with a new king-sized mattress and/or bedding system. Many of the newfangled mattresses assume heavier people want a firm feel, but we both prefer a softer effect. Any advice to pass along?
1 year
Store-bought pasta of any kind and chicken-and-rice dish with some gravy or simmer sauce. It’s about as “cheap” as you can hope to obtain these days.
With the basics of cooking skills in hand, it can still make for a tasty dinner!
1 year
I have family who are fat, and so it’s always been around. My SO’s family is half fat and half not, so I’m grateful she inherited the fat gene :-)
1 year
As I tell everyone here who seem to be enjoying being fat, I’m here to encourage them and compliment what they probably don’t hear enough of in everyday life :-)
I’ve always loved bigger women, from my first gf forward. Hope to be a proud member of this community for as long as I can :-)
1 year
I think people who love each other will find a way. My SO is 320-340 pounds depending on our budget. I just caress that big, jiggly belly of hers, gently move it away from her fupa and penetrate her with love ❤️
1 year
