JN_TumLover56:
I’m just gonna post while ignoring the drama, even though it looks like the person who started this thread is gone.
But yeah… I wish most women didn’t have to lose weight too. Wish that they can keep a belly around to stuff and play with for someone like me. But it doesn’t work that way in reality. Especially if we’re talking about the health consequences, not a thing that I’m the most comfortable talking about. And like the name of this website, it’s just it… a FANTASY.
Angiefoodcake:
You aren't in a fat person's shoes. Especially fat women. As a teenage girl I got fat shamed by my Filipino mom and aunt. Mom hopes I become skinny since in most Asian cultures skinny is the beauty standard. Aunt one time scolded me for drinking pop. Even my dad who is fat made some fataphobic comments, unintentionally. My sister yesterday called me fat (in a negative way) while at the buffet yesterday.
I’m sorry that you’ve been through that. It’s definitely sucks when you’re pressured to match certain “beauty standards” within your culture.
My apologies if this comment may not have sit well with you. But you can’t always know what everyone has been through recently. Sadly it hasn’t been all positive with me as well.
1 year
JN_TumLover56:
I’m just gonna post while ignoring the drama, even though it looks like the person who started this thread is gone.
But yeah… I wish most women didn’t have to lose weight too. Wish that they can keep a belly around to stuff and play with for someone like me. But it doesn’t work that way in reality. Especially if we’re talking about the health consequences, not a thing that I’m the most comfortable talking about. And like the name of this website, it’s just it… a FANTASY.
Munchies:
How about we let women have whatever body makes them happy? Fat, thick, muscular, thin - it doesn't matter. Let's let women take ownership of their bodies without regard to how the outside world wants us to look.
You are absolutely right about that! If someone wants to lose the weight then that’s their choice. And if someone wants to let themselves go that’s also pretty cool too. 👍
1 year
Wow… that’s no good.
1 year
HueOrdner:
The English translation of my user name would be "homework folder". The perfect place to hide your porn! X'D It's the seemingly most boring folder, so no one would actually take a look inside.
Nice. 😉
1 year
Ditzy:
My Dad always called me Ditzy when I helped him in his repair garage.
Nothing wrong with a nickname you’ve grown up with!
1 year
Dragorat:I love Dragons & I used to work as Chuck E. Cheese( Back when he was known as a New York City sewer Rat)!Taking my love of the 2 you have Dragorat!....
Really?? I would’ve guessed that you used be a mascot back in the day. 😅 Still, a solid choice of a username!
1 year
NoMoYoYo:
My name is fairly straightforward.
NoMo(re)YoYo(dieting).
I've gained and lost weight so many times over the years, I lost count. I just want to gain and then maintain. I don't want to lose any more.
Plus its a fun little rhyme.
Creative!
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
I went to the doctor and he said I was morbidly a beast
Sounds pretty straight forward!
2 years
Pluviophile:
I like rain + I grew up in Seattle.
Interesting, I didn’t know there was a fancy saying for liking rain. 😅
2 years
Hey everyone I wanted to make a fun little thread about what made you decide on your username? Especially if there’s a little story/lore behind it? I look forward to reading everyone’s stories.
Here’s mine:
So the “JN” part is my first two legal initials. I’m not gonna reveal them unless someone is actually interested in getting to know me more than just a casual user on FF.
The “TumLover” is pretty obvious because I love love bellies… maybe just too much! 😅 It’s been something that I’ve always liked them for a long while now probably since I was a kid. Can it also be a reason why I’m not married by now? I guess we’ll find out.
As for the “56” part is really random. It was just a number that came up in my brain. Plus my basketball character in a game I was playing had a number 56 on his jersey at the time so that might have something to do with that.
2 years
