What do you plan on doing when you get into a relationship? Are you going to introduce her to your friends and family?

Oh sweet, another thread where we list the same dozen songs about fat people!

So basically you're the only who is aware and understanding of her personal desires and everyone else is sheeple.

You're the "bad guy" here because you can't get it through your head that not everyone wants to be fat and that someone who is superfat and doesn't want to be is probably not going to be all that happy about it.

There's the issue of "if only some bold, true FA could go and save her from the 'thin is in' culture!"- because obviously she is a damsel in distress and needs saving by someone who loves her fat (and knows little else about her).

You're assuming one hell of a lot about people trying to get in contact with her- and blaming this on people you see as less than you when you yourself don't seem to be doing much to get in touch with someone who doesn't have any clue who you are.

And if you think that it's easy to have your world-view completely shifted by a total stranger (whose primary interest in you is the thing that confines and restricts you), then you are seriously in need of some learning with regard to pretty much everything social, including but not limited to the concepts of personal space, not bothering someone who doesn't want to interact with you, and autonomy (body and otherwise).

You're the bad guy here because you're advocating for people to invade someone's life and personal space because you feel a need to save her from something she wants that runs counter to your ideals and desires, and it's all based on what you think she actually wants despite evidence proving you wrong.

So yes, you are the bad guy in this. Perhaps not the only one, but you're intent on working against the interests and desires of Georgia, and that really doesn't help anyone; rather, it does harm. And you continue to push for this even after you've been told that it's wrong and why it's wrong.

You should try listening for a change. It'd do you a world of good.

Maybe someone who actually wants to? Because from all indications, that's not Georgia. And you're still wanting it to be. You're consistently ignoring who she is beyond her fatness and your own want to see her bigger. Which really doesn't much separate you from those you're so quick to put down.

Which means that it's not for you, and that's okay. It's not for a lot of people, and that's okay.

If it's not fun for someone to be treated this way, then they shouldn't be treated that way by a partner- it's abusive and yes, it would be traumatic.

But it is something that some people are into. And while you wouldn't wish it on anyone else, it's what they want.

If it's something that is really so bad an experience for you, I'd say don't agree to do it, even if your partner wants to; weighing your own emotions against their desires in this scenario will only be good for you. But I'm an outsider and I don't know your relationships or anything, so take this advice with however much salt you will.

You act they don't have entire channels devoted to "I/we am/are right, everyone else is wrong, you should all listen to me/us".

I can't imagine why someone wouldn't want to talk to you.

"Go eat a sammich you look like you're anorexic" is nowhere near being on the same level as the discrimination that fat people deal with. It's the same sport, sure, but we're talking the difference between little league and the major leagues here.

Once society broadcasts the message that thinness is unhealthy and that people who are thin are mentally unsound, sexually undesirable, responsible for the world's issues, and less than human, perhaps then you could maybe say that thin people face the same discrimination.

This doesn't make it at all acceptable- the people who are harassing people about being too thin are jerks for sure. But use your brain before saying that the discrimination is anything resembling equal.

Woot for a book that's based on Twilight fan fiction.

Something that's a derivative of what amounts to a teenage girl's masturbatory fantasy can only be good.

ETA: Relevant.

There's certain kinds of girls who are emotional eaters, so if you just show them sad movies they'll get really really fat.