Morbidly A Beast:
As long as my belly is full you can dom me or sub me, I think that most guys are probably agnostic or don’t have that kink.

My question is being a ppl pleaser or a general go lucky person be dom? I’m I mistaken in thinking a dom can’t de docile or yielding by nature is it a 1 to 1 with how the person actually is or strictly kink

Lbd4:
Someone recommended the character ai psychologist as an opportunity to clarify their own feeling about this fetish. I talked to it about my own kinks and it was trying to convince me to gain weight and eat a lot even though those aren’t solid goals I have for myself. It was pretty convincing. I think you have to want the thing that’s on offer.
There’s also enough of an uncanny valley that you never forget that there’s no body the words are being filtered through. I’m intrigued by AI. I think when we get scared by these things and retreat to our caves mumbling ‘fire bad’ we give up power to the curious and flexible. They are tools not overlords…don’t relinquish your brain to it.

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not sure what any of this dom sub stuff is to be frank either way dom or sub for me would be for my partners enjoyment. If dom feedee means being kingly or something like that i could make it work

Munchies:
It's all about power play. A dom(me) is the dominant one, while the sub is the submissive one. Of course, there's no one way to be dominant or submissive. Being dominant can mean acting like royalty, but not necessarily

Sadistic doms get off on causing pain. Pleasure doms prefer to give their subs as much pleasure as possible. Daddy doms act more parental. There are scores more, but you get the idea.

Enas:
Pleasure doms... Ive never come across the term!

Im curious, if a pleasure dom is extreme enough, does it become at some point, practically sadistic?

Munchies:
It depends. A pleasure dom(me) is all about making their sub feel good. If the sub is into masochism, then they may inflict pain or torture their sub with pleasure (think forced orgasms). But if a sub isn't into that, then the pleasure dom(me) won't do it.

Think of it like the sub sinking into subspace while the pleasure dom(me) focuses on making them feel good.

Enas:
Forced orgasms are super hot to me! 😆

Also, what is that subspace? Is it a trance?

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not sure what any of this dom sub stuff is to be frank either way dom or sub for me would be for my partners enjoyment. If dom feedee means being kingly or something like that i could make it work

Munchies:
It's all about power play. A dom(me) is the dominant one, while the sub is the submissive one. Of course, there's no one way to be dominant or submissive. Being dominant can mean acting like royalty, but not necessarily

Sadistic doms get off on causing pain. Pleasure doms prefer to give their subs as much pleasure as possible. Daddy doms act more parental. There are scores more, but you get the idea.

Enas:
Pleasure doms... Ive never come across the term!

Im curious, if a pleasure dom is extreme enough, does it become at some point, practically sadistic?

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not sure what any of this dom sub stuff is to be frank either way dom or sub for me would be for my partners enjoyment. If dom feedee means being kingly or something like that i could make it work

AskDrFeeder:
You are not the only one. It's hard to find the right person, but hang in there. And while you wait, get your financial house in order. There are few better feeders than ones who can easily afford food, clothes, plane tickets and such.

Munchies:
I mean, becoming financially stable is important, but that's not nearly enough. Many (usually male) feeders mistake being financially stable and monetarily generous for being someone worthy of spending time with.

Besides, despite guys griping about the contrary, there are many (usually female) feedees who refuse money from unfamiliar feeders because they will take that as them owing them for things they don't want. For example, because a feeder paid a feedee for food, they owe them nudes.

In my experience, the best way to get into a feedist relationship is to be someone they can be vulnerable with and not have your fetish as the main/sole part of your relationship. This should be a person you can at least see yourself being friends with.

Tightercollars:
this cant be honest enough. i talk alot now with my partner about the fantasy aspects within feederism and how reality in a relationship works. At fantasy feeder, the community feels like it put the fetish first and thats the impression ive gotten with the interactions ive recieved and thats not where growing relationships start. romantic or not.

Senpai Hentai The Hentai Lord:
I have to agree on that it feels like this is more at times a fetish community less than a dating app despite it technically being both evenly but it pushes more towards other

AskDrFeeder:
You are not the only one. It's hard to find the right person, but hang in there. And while you wait, get your financial house in order. There are few better feeders than ones who can easily afford food, clothes, plane tickets and such.

Ligr77:
I will also say that they sell handheld ACs at some Walgreens locations. That said it might be easier to google "handheld AC". One of my coworkers found one, and they say it works pretty well!

Also, I legit didn't know that AC was that uncommon in the UK.

Enas:
Well, you pose a question that if taken litteraly, is not very helpfull. Odds are, with so many people, given that there is a variety of, there are definetely people who can be described, or at least are similar to the description you gave.

(Thats not a very helpfull question to ask, because its something that anyone can figure out on their own, no need to ask this specific question to other people, etc)

Im suspecting, however that youre trying to get to a different point however, like... How common are they, or how to uproach them maybe. Am i correct on this?

Femme Calories:
That would be correct.

Enas:
I recomend you to search for feedee authors of stories that contain a dom feedee and maybe even a sub feeder!