Unhealthy?


Munchies:
We stan a queen who can cook.

Sweetfattie:
Haha, right now I’m a much better baker than cook. I’m determined to learn though! I can do a lot of American dishes well, but I’m not familiar enough with the spices, herbs, and other flavorings from other parts of the world to know what a dish needs when I taste it. I can tell that my saag paneer doesn’t taste right, but what exactly is it missing? Hell if I know!


Feel you. But hey! Figuring it out is half the fun.

I will say sometimes it's not missing a spice. Rather, it's all about how you use the spice. For example, if you take your spices and heat them in a skillet on low, you unlock a bolder flavor.
1 year

Unhealthy?


Munchies:
It's because of how you trained your brain. You can train your brain to enjoy pretty much anything if you are consistent about it. It's why people who eat healthy tend to find fast food gross.

Sweetfattie:
Can confirm, I dislike most fast food. Always have with a few exceptions. I enjoy eating out, but I would rather have a delicious curry with naan and pakoras, or barbecue brisket with tangy coleslaw and cornbread, or ma po tofu with egg rolls and hot and sour soup, or a big pastrami and Swiss on rye with a crisp green salad… Give me big flavors! A variety of textures! Temperature contrast! Rubs, sauces, marinades, cured meats, strong cheeses, luscious ripe fresh fruits and cool crunchy vegetables.

This is why truly stuffing myself is a special treat. I have expensive taste in food. (Yeah, there are some things I can make myself, but my homemade Indian and Chinese food game is still weak. Alas.)


We stan a queen who can cook.
1 year

Unhealthy?

Wanttobefat600:
Im not saying that healthy food can't neccessarily taste good, I just have a personal preference toward unhealthy junk food. Idk why but i just tend to crave more of processed type foods


It's because of how you trained your brain. You can train your brain to enjoy pretty much anything if you are consistent about it. It's why people who eat healthy tend to find fast food gross.
1 year

Unhealthy?

Wanttobefat600:
I've spent many years contemplating whether or not I was okay with being unhealthy as a result of gaining weight. And while honestly, I'm definitely scared of dying, I've finally accepted the fact that my health will not be the greatest as I gain weight lol. After so many years I just realized that my urges to gain aren't going anywhere so it leaves me no choice. And plus I just like eating junk fatty foods better so even if i wasnt into fat and gaining id rather be a bit unhealthy than have to give up eating foods that taste good and give me the satisfaction only foods that make you fat can


I never understood the argument that eating healthy foods tastes bad. All that tells me is you can't cook for shit.

Which is a different problem.
1 year

Ways to gain lower body fat?

Danny823:
People usually don’t like this option, but exercising is the best way to do this. Plus, working out means you can eat more calories

If you go to the gym and lift, and you do nothing but legs while eating in a huge calorie surplus, your legs will definitely grow significantly bigger, but I know it’s a lot of work for people that usually don’t want to exercise


Muscle building is a great way to body sculpt.

To be clear, you cannot drastically change your overall bodyshape. No amount of squats will turn an apple into a pear. And your muscle gains will vary depending on if you are an ectomorph, mesomorph, or endomorph. But you can absolutely ger bigger legs, hips, and ass that way.

If you bulk up your pecs, you can grow your chest. But it won't give you bigger tits.
1 year

Get pregnant

MarieTrans:
"Up yours, woke moralists" lmao

Sendet:
A moment ago this person's comment had been "Haha funny conservative rant".

Oh no...

Random moralistic interjections - and on a fantasy fetish site (though cady55 beat me to pointed this out prior "I apologize, I thought this was "Fantasy" Feeder"...)

But then they blame conservatism when someone points out that sudden moralistic interjections are unnecessary and unpleasant (and that it was illogical)...

And... they use 'woke' for themselves and I can't even tell if they are being ironic or if they are indeed the type...

All of which means... Oh no... That means...

I'm sorry everyone. It appears that I have fed a troll @.@


Well ... you are a feeder.
1 year

Advantages of having a fat boyfriend

MarieTrans:
#7 seems like more of a downside to me (and very personal), I like my men to be in touch with their emotions


I agree. I've gone after mostly fat men. If there's one thing I've learned is to leave these emotionally constipated little boys alone. Their issues have issues, and they'll try to make it your problem.

That said, if you date a fat man that's emotionally mature, it's a magical thing. They are some of the kindest, most empathetic people you will ever meet.
1 year

Ways to gain lower body fat?

ChubuffElly:
This is a shot in the dark. I know that fat distribution is mostly genetic but are there foods that are 'allegedly' prone to go into your butt and hips and maybe even breasts?


No.

Some users will probably chime in and say things like "heavy cream grew my ass and thighs" or "try fenugreek to grow your breasts"

Your milage will vary with both. And even then, your overall body shape won't be much different.

Your profile says you're trans. Are you on HRT?
1 year

Feedee regret

Letters And Numbers:
I think for as much as many of us will vociferously protest, many of us treat this site and this larger community as an extension of the pornography world. So while it might be a hangout spot just like a social club some of the time, it's a social club where people sneak off to masturbate constantly and they also like to talk about what they masturbate to and complain about things and then masturbate again. And I think this leads many people, men and women, buyers and sellers, to internalize that it's a series of transactional relationships.

I don't even know if that's so different from going to any other website, or any real bar or social club, except that people have lower inhibitions here and everyone is aware what everyone else wants to pay for. There are few secrets.

But if I was trying to meet someone IRL and get them to essentially gratify my fetish, I could use my charm and wit and good looks. That and paying them some money might get me what I'm looking for. And then there's Fantasy Feeder.


Pretty much
1 year

Immobility

Deadass427:
These comments are my thoughts exactly. One of the things I was looking into was stuff like personal hygiene. I imagine at that size, cleaning yourself good and properly would take more than yourself to do so you would need someone else to help. I feel like my husband would be more than willing to take up a new roll, I just don’t think I’d want him to. I’d feel like I’d be living in hospice care.


I was my mother's primary caretaker for many years. She was bedbound, but not immobile (don't worry, she's okay now). On top of everything else I had going on in my life, I had to feed her, groom her, make sure she had her medication, help her to the bathroom, etc. etc. It was exhausting, and I had help from family members.

We didn't have a caretaker because those are mad expensive and even then, you can't let just anyone take care of your mom.

It was exhausting. Don't get me wrong. I love my mom. And she hated having to ask me to take care of her. But it really wears on both parties, and there were days we resented each other.

A lot of feedists into immobility keep it to fantasy because most people cannot handle the reality side of it.

And what's going to happen if he gets sick, has to go out of town, or is otherwise unable to take care of you? You're trapped. And he can't rely on you when he needs help because you can't move. And unlike people who are paralyzed or movement impaired, you'd be too big for any mobility aide.
1 year