This term is known as "androgyny". In other words, there's a mix of masculine and feminine traits.

I don't see this desire very often from women and femmes. But I see it a lot with the cis male crowd. There are scores of forum posts talking about how much they love how more feminine the look. However, most of these aren't interested in becoming women or being more feminine in general.

This leads me to believe what they are more interested in is androgyny and not femininity. Indeed, once you get a certain size, it's harder to tell what gender you are unless you dress a certain way. It's a size mile marker for a lot of men.

Of course, there are men who have feminization kinks as well as fat kinks. This is an entirely different kettle of fish.

It comes down to how you plan to use it.

If you buy something you don't need/want just because of a deal, then I don't know what to tell you. But if were going to get it anyway, then get the BOGO deal.

Anyone who grew up poor knows that BOGO deals mean bonus meals. Just store it for later, and there you go. (Even fried foods can be good the next day if you warm it up in the oven instead of the microwave.)

If you are looking to save money on stuffings, then you can't go wrong with a BOGO deal. It's twice the calories for half the price!

Friendly reminder that you are 18 now. They can't make you do anything.

loradayton.com/2022/01/26/how-to-have-the-kink-talk-with-your-partner/

I bet you'll be stunning

I'm not autosexual, nor am I a feedee or gainer. But I turn myself on all the time.

I'm also hypersexual, but that stems from my autism.

I believe you. That said, from what I can see of you, you are a stunning woman. Anyone who says otherwise is an idiot.

Hedonism. The thing you are thinking about is hedonism.

Hedonsim isn't gluttony. Rather, it's "the ethical theory that pleasure (in the sense of the satisfaction of desires) is the highest good and proper aim of human life."

For example, if eating three donuts a day gives you pleasure, then do that. However, if eating a box of donuts a day makes you feel bad, then don't do that. This is different from gluttony. Gluttony requires you to consume as much as possible as often as possible.

There's a bit more to it than that. This article can give you a better understanding:

ethicsunwrapped.utexas.edu/glossary/hedonism

I suppose it depends on what you mean by "spiritual." Technically, gluttony is a spiritual concept one can practice, but as far as I can tell, the various different faiths agree that gluttony is bad.

For transparency's sake, I am Christian. But I did a little digging around other religions - specifically those with non-Abrahamic roots such as Jainism, Asatro, and Obeah. They all do not condone gluttony.

I believe the reason is two-fold. Like Liger77 said, it isn't practical. Occasional feasting is fun, but if everyone ate like it was Thanksgiving every day, society would collapse. It would also create a society where those who have the means to over-consume are holy, and those who do not are heathens.

I don't think I have to explain the dystopia that would create.

Then there's the moral aspect of this. To be clear, gluttony is a thing of degrees. I don't think regular or occasional overindulgence is a bad thing so long as it doesn't consume you. But there are feedist that have given their lives to gluttony. I encounter them on a semi-regular basis. They are the most miserable, insufferable people I've had the displeasure to meet.

I remember this one user I met a few months after I joined the site. If gluttony was a spiritual practice, then he would be its devotee. He didn't care about his size. He just enjoyed an over-stuffed belly at all times. Unfortunately, this often meant he was too full to do much of anything. This led to his losing friends he had before his gluttony journey

He worked in a fast food place so he'd have unfettered access to free food. He also admitted to regularly messing up orders so he could eat their food. This led to him getting fired from previous fast-food jobs.

He complained about financially struggling. However, he did not want to get a job that pays more because then he'd have to eat less to keep it. He was lonely, angry, and entitled. I felt a mix of pity and disgust towards him.

If gluttony were a spiritual practice, I'd imagine it would create many people like him. And I can't think of any spiritual leader with their salt would condemn their followers to a life like that.