Bese — a new term for the upper chest area

HappyBigBelly:
As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)

It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.

It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)

So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)

Munchies:
There is already a name for this area: decolletage. You can also refer to it as the chest or upper chest.

That said, I am not sure how an adjective works to describe this area. Unless you are trying to do something like "thunder thighs". But that rolls off the tongue. "Bese décolletage" feels kinda clunky.

HappyBigBelly:
Ah, yes. I had even heard of the term décolletage before. Didn’t immediately think of it, thanks! I guess bese can exist in the universe as words like “boss” or “brat” which have been used as adjectives in the recent past.

In any case, I do love me some soft, bese décolletage :-)

Munchies:
Plush, full, soft, luxurious, fluffy, well-fed, over-fed, plump ... there are much better words than bese.

There's a psychology to words in that the mouth feel of the word influences perceptions of the word irrespective of its meaning.

Take the word "obese." The first syllable, "o," rounds out the word, allowing the mouth to slide more comfortably into the second syllable. Consider how your mouth moves when you say the list of words I provided. Your mouth and tongue stay relaxed and rounded, reflecting the softness these words suggest.

Now compare "bese." It is a sharp sound. You start by forcing air against closed lips. Then, you pull those lips back while flattening, stiffening, and drawing the tongue back. There's no soft sound like an o to remove the sharpness.

By all means, make up a new word. But maybe a different one will better visualize the softness you are trying to describe.


Yeah, I guess it demands more of an appetizer word instead of a main dish word :-)
1 year

Bese — a new term for the upper chest area

HappyBigBelly:
As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)

It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.

It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)

So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)

Munchies:
There is already a name for this area: decolletage. You can also refer to it as the chest or upper chest.

That said, I am not sure how an adjective works to describe this area. Unless you are trying to do something like "thunder thighs". But that rolls off the tongue. "Bese décolletage" feels kinda clunky.


Ah, yes. I had even heard of the term décolletage before. Didn’t immediately think of it, thanks! I guess bese can exist in the universe as words like “boss” or “brat” which have been used as adjectives in the recent past.

In any case, I do love me some soft, bese décolletage :-)
1 year

Bese — a new term for the upper chest area

As a lifelong FA, I’ve of course admired bellies and boobs getting larger on a woman. But there’s another part that drives me wild to see soften up :-)

It’s the area between the top of the boobs and the neck area. When a gal gains, it tends to puff out and get softer with every pound. I’ve been trying to think of a word for this, and what I’ve come up with isn’t a noun, but an adjective — “bese”.

It’s kinda derived from “obese” and simply means it’s soft and pillowy just like the bust area below it. Especially so on ladies who get heavier than 200 pounds. It just widens over time with each milestone gain :-)

So look out for this new word when I encourage the best figures here to keep up their lovely progress :-)
1 year

Outgrow seating

I usually grab a table instead of a booth in restaurants. For me, it’s about my back, not so much my stomach. The back cushions in booths are usually far too straight-up vertical for my back. I like to be reclined slightly when I eat. Same for when I drive. Granted, my basketball belly isn’t exactly “huge,” but it’s big enough to want to recline :-)

Table emphasis goes double for my wife. Her luscious figure sure doesn’t deal well with booth tables that don’t even offer enough space for thin people, much less larger people! :-)
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My outie belly button

It really depends on the person.

When I slowly grew a ball belly over the course of the last 15-20 years, my “innie” simply got a little deeper.

My wife was already big gal when we met, but I can say her innie has become almost an outie. Getting even heavier the past 10 years has pushed hers out more.
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In awe of our own before and after pics

Like most encouragers here, I love seeing people’s pics from before they got fat, and then admiring their progress. I have to say I’m in awe of mine and my wife’s gain through the years.

I was quite the skinny guy until my 30s and had no belly at all. My ball belly grew during that time to what it is today. I’m in amazement how it’s gone from visible ribs to a big ball of visceral fat :-)

My wife was quite petite when she was a preteen. Then genetics and her first two pregnancies came and her weight blew up immensely. She’s always loved showing off her shoulders, even way back when. One pic has her wearing a strapless halter with these cute little bony shoulders back then. Literally gained about 150 pounds by the time she was 22 and went from just having large breasts to having a humongous belly and soft, luscious arms and legs :-) Neither of us looks like the same person in our befores and afters :-)

Anyone else look someone completely different in their afters?
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Coworker getting fat

Ditzy:
The 2 secretaries I hired 5 years ago have all gained weight.
Not sure exactly how much but both 150 ish when they started but are approaching the mid 200s I would think now.


Seems they all followed your lead :-) You continue to widen and look lovely!
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