How to accept this fetish and guilt

Zelda64:
Hello everyone. So I am right now have been thinking a lot about this fetish and what it means it my life. I have know for basically my whole life that I enjoyed a guy gaining weight (not myself). However this past year I have been really anxious and depressed because I feel like I need this fetish to be involved in a relationship i'm in or else I will feel unsatisfied.

The biggest thing that triggers the guilt is that I am encouraging someone to be unhealthy. I understand that this is something that I cannot change and will be with me the rest of my life but, I can't see myself ever being comfortable with it in real life even though I at the same time want to be okay with it. Am i a bad person because I want to get rid of my empathy and enjoy someone gaining weight? Is it even immoral to encourage to gain weight if its consensual?

And I am not trying to make any one feel bad about themselves? This is just my personal insecurities and issues. If anyone has experienced this any advice or input would be greatly appreciated because this has caused me so much anxiety recently and I have no one in real life to talk to about this because I feel so alone.


Many of life’s activities have the consequence of possible harm. And yet we do these things because the pleasures outweigh the consequences.

We drive too fast, we rock climb, we ride horses and motorcycles, we swim in deep waters, we listen to loud music, we go sledding, we eat artery-clogging delicious foods, we bike without helmets, we have sex with lots and lots of people, we take all manner of drugs, we smoke and drink to excess.

This is life and what makes it fun and enjoyable.

Your question really is do you want a safe and sterile healthy existence for you and the one you love, or do you want to plunge into the pleasures this life offers human beings? Even if it means becoming unhealthy and possibly dying a bit early?

Run the calculus on which is more valuable:

1. A long life with few of the pleasures you really crave and thus a life of not being genuine.

Or

2. A life lived to its fullest with laughter, tears and pleasures immeasurable for both you and your love.

I think the possibility of living choice 1 could be more anxiety-provoking than heading to the buffet with your honey and going all-in for living as you both desire.
6 years

Is this lifestyle sinful?

The seven sins were set up by some Catholic bishop or pope centuries ago.

Jesus, if anything, condoned partying and gluttony. Much of what he and his followers did was drink wine and eat. They were even accused of being gluttons by the Pharisees. And think of how at the first miracle, Jesus is called on to turn water into wine because the party-goers have drunk all the wine.

And in current Christianity, there is plenty of gluttony as well. I'll have to dig out an essay I wrote on this topic years ago.

Anyway, eat up. It's no sin to enjoy life.
6 years

Punctuation in stories.

PrincessBlurmy:
There seems to be a problem with ' in stories appearing as ?TMeuro or something similar.
It's making all new additions unreadable.


This problem has been around for quite a while but has seemingly gotten worse.

I think it may depend on how and what device the story may be typed on. Also, I noticed that writing the story on a note system or Word then copying and pasting it in here sometimes produces this problem.
6 years

Fantasy

ProtrudingBelly21:
Just wanted to share one of my fantasies...
Whenever my belly is fully stuffed to bursting, I always imagine my feeder taking me out to 2 full course meals, making sure I�m stuffed like a thanksgiving turkey.

When we get home, before I lay down lazily, I imagine he�d throw me in a chair and strap my arms behind my back. With little to no fight from me, until he brings out a beer funnel and a deep dish pizza! I love to imagine him rubbing my belly as I eat each slice he feeds me, and when my belly starts to protest he slides weight gain shakes down my throat thru the funnel, to mute the groans and moans from my distended gut.

When I start to feel like I�ve reached my limit, he�d immediately begin teasing more food into me by unbuttoning my blouse and massaging my boobs as well as my tummy. As I take a break from the funnel, now only able to make short strained breaths, my feeder beings rubbing my perky nipples in small circles, telling me he�d reward me if I finish the whole pizza and one more shake.
I do whatever he says in complete submission and what the reward is?? I guess we�ll never know...

GrowingLoveHandles:
You really should write stories to post in the stories section. Wonderfully erotic!

ProtrudingBelly21:
Wow! Thank you love!


So? Turn your fantasy into a story and post it
6 years

Communists and other leftists ?

ccwolf60:
Go to the right see the light, stay away from the left drag you down into the ditch.

Its Bubba Jay:
Are you a republican?

ccwolf60:
yup smiley

Its Bubba Jay:
Be gone you right winger!

ccwolf60:
never we are here for ever .smiley

Startnew:
yeah right, I wonder How is it possible? Think about all' the mess 2 Bush, 1 Reagan and 1 Trump have done. How come there are still people out there who still vote Republican

nofbar:
Perhaps your world model is wrong.

GrowingLoveHandles:
How? Specifics?

nofbar:
When you see that there are a lot of people voting Republican despite your deduction that nobody should do so, that's a clue that you probably don't have a clear picture of things.


In both 2000 and 2016, more people voted against Bush and Trump than for them. Trump is right— the system is rigged.

The great majority do not vote at all. Perhaps none of us have a clear picture of things.
6 years

Delayed ejaculation and obesity

boundandfeed:
Is there a connection between obesity and delayed ejaculation or erection disorder?


For the Dom/Domme feeders was this intentional?

Startnew:
in my experience: NO.


"Why Men with Big Bellies Make Better Lovers”

Containing this quote about a study of men's lasting power in bed:

"Men with a higher BMI (body mass indes) and, yes, unsightly guts, lasted an average of 7.3 minutes where the slimmer of the group could barely hold on for 2 minutes."

yourtango.com/201085004/why-men-big-bellies-might-make-better-lovers#.VBL-sZcuE60.facebook
6 years

Communists and other leftists ?

ccwolf60:
Go to the right see the light, stay away from the left drag you down into the ditch.

Its Bubba Jay:
Are you a republican?

ccwolf60:
yup smiley

Its Bubba Jay:
Be gone you right winger!

ccwolf60:
never we are here for ever .smiley

Startnew:
yeah right, I wonder How is it possible? Think about all' the mess 2 Bush, 1 Reagan and 1 Trump have done. How come there are still people out there who still vote Republican

nofbar:
Perhaps your world model is wrong.


How? Specifics?
6 years

Communists and other leftists ?

ccwolf60:
Go to the right see the light, stay away from the left drag you down into the ditch.

Its Bubba Jay:
Are you a republican?

ccwolf60:
yup smiley

Its Bubba Jay:
Be gone you right winger!

ccwolf60:
never we are here for ever .smiley

Startnew:
yeah right, I wonder How is it possible? Think about all' the mess 2 Bush, 1 Reagan and 1 Trump have done. How come there are still people out there who still vote Republican


This mystifies me as well, and I live in a place where people overwhelmingly voted for Trump.

I can say that there is a lot of voter suppression and voter disenfranchisement here in Kentucky. Also, so many people have become so disgusted that they have given up voting.

So the leftists here are basically handing it over to Trumpites. It's sad, and I work to register people to vote when I can, and I talk with people all the time about this.

Our senator Mitch McConnell is perhaps more of an obstacle to true democracy than Trump. McConnell supports our state's taking the vote away.

One out of 11 Kentuckians cannot vote. Ever.

One out of 4 black Kentuckians cannot vote. Ever.

And Mitch McConnell says that's a good thing.
6 years

Fantasy

ProtrudingBelly21:
Just wanted to share one of my fantasies...
Whenever my belly is fully stuffed to bursting, I always imagine my feeder taking me out to 2 full course meals, making sure I�m stuffed like a thanksgiving turkey.

When we get home, before I lay down lazily, I imagine he�d throw me in a chair and strap my arms behind my back. With little to no fight from me, until he brings out a beer funnel and a deep dish pizza! I love to imagine him rubbing my belly as I eat each slice he feeds me, and when my belly starts to protest he slides weight gain shakes down my throat thru the funnel, to mute the groans and moans from my distended gut.

When I start to feel like I�ve reached my limit, he�d immediately begin teasing more food into me by unbuttoning my blouse and massaging my boobs as well as my tummy. As I take a break from the funnel, now only able to make short strained breaths, my feeder beings rubbing my perky nipples in small circles, telling me he�d reward me if I finish the whole pizza and one more shake.
I do whatever he says in complete submission and what the reward is?? I guess we�ll never know...


You really should write stories to post in the stories section. Wonderfully erotic!
6 years

Your kinkiest fantasy

fattastic_freya:
i think mine is where i�m tied up in a sex swing, force fed food and every few hundred calories a vibrater stimulates me to eat more and more. all while i�m eating there�s a pump inflating my pussy and an aquarium pump inflating me in my asshole. i�m being degraded by my dom and teased for every bite i take. every time i stop eating the aquarium pump is turned up a notch making me fuller and rounder, by the end of the night the swing breaks under my weight and i�m forced to waddle my fat ass to the bed where i�ll be fukked all night


I’ve had that dream before.
6 years