Is it my imagination or are feedees getting fatter than ever these days?
3 years
Ploppp:
Some people are fat and some people are not. It really has little to do with how much you eat...
This is true for some. But most fat people do eat more. And certainly all feedees who've gained weight on purpose eat a lot; some eat amazing amounts.
It's tricky talking to kids, though. Kids should not be encouraged to get fat; it's a major life decision that they are too young to make. (They may do it anyway, but it should not be because you encouraged it.) Of course I'm not saying you should fat-shame them either, just be fat-neutral. If they expressly ask why you're fat you could just say that you eat a lot. Or that you don't like dieting. I wouldn't tell them what to do unless they expressly ask: in that case I'd tell them they'd be better off eating moderately, at least until they grow up.
3 years
Do you ever start eating and get so into it you feel sad when you have to stop because you're too full to eat anymore? Does that happen more often the more you gain? Or less?
3 years
LoraDayton:
a kink is not a treatment for a disorder. Literally what is wrong with you.
I didn't say it was a treatment. Some have told me it helped though, just wondered what you thought.
3 years
LoraDayton:
Strongly recommend avoiding individuals in this community who minimize how severe it can be, or the fact that it can strike anyone at any time for any reason and it doesn't have anything to do with gratification. And especially if they enable it for their own gratification... Drop them like a bad habit
I certainly agree, just wonder if the feedism fetish might help people cope or at least counter-balance eating disorders. Do you think that's possible?
3 years
BouttoBurst:I do think there is merit to the theory that those of us who can't stop regularly stuff beyond our limits. I do it pretty much every day lately.
3 years
anon5665:
I think it's useful (and relieving) knowing that nearly 100% of feedees eventually give in, even if it's slowly.
I doubt it's anywhere near 100%. It may seem that way judging from the feedist websites, but those who decide not to get fat are less likely to frequent such sites.
3 years
Have any feedees been diagnosed with binge eating disorder? If so, you do you resolve that with being a feedee?
3 years
When you're gaining, do you prefer fat people for friends? Seems like they'd be less judgmental.
3 years