Older people with this fetish

Find Ned Sonntag if you can.

Original NAAFA member and wealth of knowledge.
4 years

We got a problem

HamBeesly:
Oops, I forgot to add a point (sorry, I know we’re burned out on long, rambling posts): when people tell me they want friends, I take them at their word. Lots of people approach friend-making and date-finding completely differently. I know some really prefer to have friendships that gradually become relationships, but that sort of thing really can’t be engineered unless both parties are onboard, in which case, they’re making a date-finding deal, not a friend-making one. A lot of folks make friends and see those friends as only friends. What they look for in partners may be wildly different. So if someone makes friends with them hoping it’ll ultimately become more, they may be really setting themselves up for a bad time, especially if the other person feels a sense of deceit that they entered the friendship with ulterior motives.


You make a lot of great points. That's the other side of the coin I failed to mention in my initial post. The bad behavior of men (and some women) are directly responsible for this by trying to turn everything into kink chat.

I mentioned this in another forum that its a toxic cycle that men are just in it to get off, especially on fetish sites and women retaliated by making conversations "pay to play".

Because of that, you get women scared to death of sociopathic dudes going "ehehehe how mush do u weighhhh??" and you get normal guys scared to death they'll message a girl they think is cute and get "buy my content if you want to chat!"

You're absolutely right that Covid wiped out potential meetings, gatherings, etc and you're right that struggling for income goes both ways. Just wish both struggles didn't contribute to the toxic cycle.

In your opinion, what can be done to fix this?
4 years

We got a problem

I was recently having a conversation with a friend of the sad state of affairs these days and I just had to get this off my chest to see I'd anyone else agreed.

In 2008-09 I would say AT MOST, 25% of cam girls, web models, content creators, etc had "pay to play" stipulations. Like you had to pay for the Big Cuties, Bombshells and the top tier Clips4sale girls but everyone else on the forums, dances, etc weren't like that.

In 2021 I'd say at LEAST, 85% of females in the BBW niche are "pay to play" content creators. Everybody has an OF, premium account, etc.Of the remaining 15%, half of them are fake profiles. You can tell a mile away if it's a man or not if you've been around long enough.

That gives an FA, doesn't matter the gender, SEVEN PERCENT chance of meeting a friend without any kind of transaction behind it. Most recently someone close to my age broke down crying that he can't meet anyone in the Syndicate because everyone's either fake or out for money.

Sorry this is getting long winded but I'll wrap up quickly. If you're a broke college kid or not making very much money in your early 20's, how the f*ck are you supposed to make friends in this kind of climate?

How do we fix this?
4 years

Minor annoyances

somefatgirl:
Insane and offensive drivel. My favorite part is where women are throwing themselves at him, grinding on him and touching his crotch daily. Mmmkay buddy. He’s gotta be jerking it to making us read this crap. It’s gotta be its own fetish.


He's making it all up. After all, how's he gonna prove it happened? Hahahaha
4 years

Minor annoyances

BBWcreator82:
curvage.org/forum/index.php

John Smith is also a photo thief, just so you know.

This is what got him thrown off of Curvage.


He's got zero of his own face, why is that? Lol 🤣
4 years

Minor annoyances

*checks watch*

He done yet?
4 years

Minor annoyances

Zzzzzzz...zzzzzz

*wakes up*

He done yet?
4 years

Minor annoyances

somefatgirl:
This entire post sounds like you hate fat women. Are you on the right website?

John Smith:
Your reasoning is weird. On what basis do you put forward such accusation?

somefatgirl:
Based on your inane ramblings where you rudely and condescendingly describe and judge fat women’s bodies.

John Smith:
So to speak, what every inane man and woman (including yourself) amid dozens of thousands on both this website and an half-dozen of other similar forums does for now two decades and a half of online Fat Acceptance "community" history?

Sorry if you feel so particularly more special than the rest of the human species than you are stoning an anonymous commentator for not delving in the same delusions than other people who denies the reality about somebody else they appreciate being positively obese, so they can still hypocritically and maliciously weaponize both obesity and overweight issues against people they do not like.

But of course it totally floated ahead of your consciousness, don't you.



HamBeesly:
What on earth are you *talking* about?

In all seriousness, is English your second language? Because I have a feeling maybe not all the vocabulary you use means what you think it means. A lot of what you wrote in the last few days sounded intensely critical and hateful of fat women’s bodies. If that’s not what you intend — and I like to try to believe that most people genuinely mean well, even if they have a hard time conveying their meaning — then perhaps a little less time spent attempting to use as many large words as you can and a little more time clarifying your meaning with the basics. Because if you’re not fat shaming the people you were talking about in this thread, then I honestly have no idea WHAT you were trying to say. And I’d wager most everyone else who has commented hasn’t, either.


The guy has been a troll for years with no pics or profile information, along with a bad history of picture theft (with proof). Now he's clearly going against site rules, when is enough enough?
4 years

Minor annoyances

FF Team:
Please keep things civil folks and stay on topic. Thanks!


He crossed a line this time. Bodyshaming is the ultimate no-no
4 years

Locality

No, I never got along with them anyway lol
4 years