1. Iron Maiden - Phantom Of The Opera. A metal classic that keeps changing.
2. White Stripes - Ball and Biscuit. Jack White is just on another level for guitar originality and technique
3. The Damned - Under The Floor Again. Probably the most beautiful piece of music ever heard. The ending guitar solo by Captain Sensible, (perhaps the most under-rated guitarist ever) is sublime, it brings tears to the eyes.

I am going to put them in order of preference if I'm allowed 20
1. Pixies
2. The Stranglers
3. The Damned
4. Interpol
5. The Strokes
6. Magazine
7. Stiff Little Fingers
8. Arctic Monkeys
9. Suede
10. Cardigans
11. Carter USM
12. The Ruts
13. Pulp
14. The Coral
15. The Skids
16. Blur
17. The Smiths
18. Muse
19. Gene
20. The Clash
I could go on forever, but had to put 20 in. Also thumbs up for the girl who likes Dresden Dolls even though they didn't make my top 20. They are great live.

What a fantastic find. Margitte Kristjansson deserves a lot of credit for putting this together, along with her blog video's that are also of interest. she's a thought provoking woman who has a great deal of intelligent things to say.

I can find slim, even thin girls attractive (not skinny). However, unless they were into gaining I would find it very difficault to perform. Even if the girl had an amazing personality and we got on very well, she must have some chub for me to grab hold of.
In my experience not only are fatter girls sexier they are also much prettier facially. This is very important to me, for my eyes do all the sexual stimulation. Now I could close my eyes while I was with a slim girl but as soon as I would be cuddling up to the girl any imagination that I may have of her being fatter would go out of the window. Leaving both me and the girl frustrated.
It happened to me 20 years ago. The girl I was with was really lovely, one of the nicest girls I have ever met and by all accounts would have been seen as quite a catch. 5'7 and about 125lbs and very good looking, in a fake Marylin Munroe sort of way. No matter how I tried, (we tried on two different occasions) I just could not perform. Tried imagining my ex, fat girls, but all I could feel was firmness. It ruined our friendship as she so wanted it to go further, out of frustration she called me a tease. I didn't have the heart to tell her she didn't turn me on. It would have seemed too cruel, but she guessed anyway I suppose.

I have to admit that my desciption was a bit incorrect, but the basics were there. I love that cartoon, I'm so glad you found it. Haven't seen it in nearly 40 years.

When I was about 11 I saw a disney cartoon about a persons emotions and their rational concience, featuring Professor Duck [Donald Ducks uncle or something]. It was two cartoon characters inside each persons head at the wheels of the brain. Firstly it started with the cartoon man slapping an attractive womens ass. The concience [a bank clerk type] was scolding the emotions [a typical blue collar man]. Then it went to the cartoon woman, curvatious but definately slim. The concience, [a typical librarian type] had been in control when the man got slapped. The emotions [again steryotypically loose looking] was moaning about how we never have any fun and that man was really cute and attractive. Anyway the woman was hungry and saw a cafe. The concience who was in control said we can go in but only for a coffee and some toast. It was at this point that the emotions enough was enough, pushed the concience out of the way and ordered just about everything on the menu, cake, ice cream and a whole host of fattenning goodies. The attractive woman just ate and ate until she was completely full. Everything expanded, her boobs became huge first, then her ass and belly outdid the rest of her until she became really fat. The concience was very ennoyed but the emotions didn't care. I found this greatly appealling but didn't really know why. This cartoon is very old now so I have no idea whether anyone else has seen this. Not until my mid teens when I used to fantasize about girls getting bigger but was always too scared to voice what I really liked did I realize why I loved this cartoon so much.

A friend of mine was on a health kick and couldn't understand their weight gain considering her food intake was full of healthy foods, just high in calories she found out. Advocado's are very nutritious and very high, so are fruit smoothies. One full glass is about 550+ calories, its two of you daily fruit and veg intake, keeps you regular and is very tasty. You could easily drink more and if anything seems to stimulate your appitite. You don't always have to go for the unhealthy option as that can make you feel bloated.

I once had a girlfriend who was 5'3, she went from 98lbs to 120lbs. Clearly she wasn't fat but she was starting to get slightly chubby much like you are now. I was very happy to see her gain and she herself certainly liked the extra weight around her hips and thighs, she always felt they were too skinny. what concerned her most was weight going on to her belly and her cloths not fitting properly. We did talk about her weight gain and about gaining more which I said I would be happy with. She was ok with this, but didn't want to take it too far. I loved her and was happy for her to take whatever decision she wanted, this is the most important point. You should only gain more weight if you feel you would be happy with extra padding.
Of course on this site we would all love to see you with more weight so you will get loads of encouragement. There are many women on all kinds of sites that have embrassed their weight gain, sometimes to extreem amounts. Its very liberating you can eat whatever you like and if its right for you, you will feel sexier and enjoy sex even more. I have always found fatter girls much more sexual than slimmer ones, they seem to take more pleasure from the sexual act. Indeed my ex found sex more enjoyable the bigger she got.
At the end of the day this has to be your decision as there is no fun getting fatter if you are constantly worried about how you look. If you do decide to gain more, don't worry about catty remarks from other girls. This would just be cruel for no good reason other than you have not become a sheep like so many women, constantly dieting to keep their weight to an unrealistic ideal.
I hope I have been of some help. As for my ex, we split up for reasons that had nothing to do with her weight.

I was watching The Bourne Ultimatum the other day and thought Julia Styles face didn't really fit her body. She looks like she should be fat, she looks an ideal candidate for putting on 70-80lbs [wishful thinking].

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