Rude: asking a woman her weight

Totally okay: growing her for your own sexual pleasure

We already have an off-topic thread.

Don't love my main job(s), but I enjoy it a fair amount of the time.

I work as a photographer for a portrait company, and that can be really stressful- and also pretty awesome.

But having the summers off is really tough on the wallet, so this summer I went back to something I'm too experienced in- fast food. It's a crap job, but I'm working with probably the best crew I've ever been with anywhere. Oh, and did I mention that it's in Yellowstone National Park? Just look at the view about half a mile from where I live.

As a side job- and I frigging love this side job- I do photography for BBW modeling sites. It's fun, it's something I'm good at, it's something that is totally aligned with my interests... if I could earn more from it I'd make it less of a side job.

Sorry for being mean about a stupid thread two months ago. I thought I might've gotten away with commenting on how ridiculously serious the unquestionable Bubba Jay is about how pics can- and do- get stolen from here.

Since this is an issue that has never been brought up before by anyone on the internet ever.

Nice people don't prove they're nice by boasting about how nice they are, unlike all the other people who aren't nice. Because by doing so... they pretty much demonstrate they're not nice.

People aren't vending machines. You don't put money in and get sex and love in return. Making claims as you've done says far, far more about you than it does about anyone else.

EDIT: Also, anyone claiming to be a "nice guy" generally is anything but.

I can give you some advice on accepting that it's her body and how to respect that fact instead of asking her to go against her own wishes and desires in order to fulfill yours.

Professional photographer for hire here.

Just sayin'.

Is his own admission of guilt- posted on FB but deleted when he deleted his account earlier today- evidence enough, or should we keep insisting that he's innocent despite several women claiming he's done the same to them?

Also, though you claim you can't ban him for his criminal activities, this is not entirely true; the rules themselves pretty much state that you can ban members for any reason at any time (which is a standard thing to go in forum rules, everywhere I've been). And since people have been banned here for some truly petty things, are you honestly claiming that you won't take action against a member who is in part using this site and others to engage in said criminal activities?

Either ban someone who's preyed on women here or admit that you're more okay with having the site facilitate these predatory activities.

Heaven forbid we warn people about the presence of an unnamed community member who's been scamming people out of money.

We might hurt their feelings and reputation.