Joshredzippo:
Im so lazy and heavy that i cant force myself to get up as easy at all! Been a lot more sedentary and my gain is increasing pace, along with fitness losses. Ill be a true fatty here very soon
DaphneFeedMe:
do you think maybe then that you've taken this fetish too far???
Joshredzippo:
Theres no such thing as too far babe
DaphneFeedMe:
Lol k I guess you'll never know cuz you'll die young at that rate. Just think some people need to be careful with how far they take a FANTASY. Young people on here have died before.
You bring up a very valid point here. I know that I myself got caught up in the fantasy of being a feeder then due to boredom germinating into a feedee but it is the practical application of actually being superobese that no one ever takes into account. When I actually saw the day to day struggles that people who weigh even five hundred pounds have to deal with. I was full speed ahead until I experienced it first hand and realized that there a major trade offs to being as obese as we are.
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DaphneFeedMe:
This is so interesting. I think we all should explore our "why." I majored in psychology and find this stuff fascinating. There is a reason for everything. For many it seems to have to do with excessivism, control, or a warped sense of love from seeing joy and love in the form of food being served at dinner etc. as a kid.
Agreed. I also majored in psychology and too many times folks will function off of their default mode network way of thinking while not actually realizing that their are some triggers as to why we have chosen this way to live.
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WideJuan76:
Yeah, being four hundred is a different threshold of fatness because everything becomes a chore
Ditzy:
It sure does Juan just putting shoes on was a chore.[/quote]
Having a hanging gut and a big chest keeps some much fat in front of you that it makes tying shoes feel like it is impossible. That is why I have been wearing slides
4 years
Ditzy:
I'm 5'4" and I remember when I hit 250 I was so proud of being and actually feeling fat.
When I past 400lbs I felt like a whale.
Yeah, being four hundred is a different threshold of fatness because everything becomes a chore
4 years
I used to love the contrast of her being bigger then I gained and I met women who were slender who adored me fat but now I am all in with us both being obese
4 years
WideJuan76:
What will ? Remember what I looked like when we first spoke on Feabie and compare that to what I look like now and I gained an additional two hundred pound person so my willpower is damn near non-existent. 🐽🐽🐽🐽
NYCBellyBlimp:
Good point.[/quote]
Yeah, it is just a matter of time for you bro; you have more will than I do now. Lol
4 years
Ditzy:
A high IQ doesn't mean you are smart or have common sense.
My IQ has been tested at the college I went to and I rated up there pretty high but ask me a question about pro football or base ball and I appear as dumb as a rock.
All I know its a bunch of guys in tight pants chasing each other on a field with lines on it.
Deductive reasoning is my strong suit I can take something apart and put it back together and it still works LOL.
I concur with Ditzy but I would also add that there is a difference between intelligence and intellectualism. I have been chubby to obese most of my life and my intellectualism has made me more of a polymath in which I between interested in a myriad of topics from inductive to deductive reasoning.
4 years
In my anecdotal experience, it is primarily a location thing or a subcultural thing. When I first moved down South in the United States in 2005, I was around 270 and I would approach but when I fell for an older woman down there she showed me that there are traditions in places like North Carolina, South Carolina, Louisiana, Tennessee and Texas in which if the person you are dating isn't obese then that is a reflection on them for not being a good spouse so in two places specifically it was like a fifty plus year thing of making ones spouse fat. Hell, I got approached more in the South by women than I ever have in my life especially when I passed 350 because they saw that as not fat enough.
4 years
WideJuan76:
People love the optics of fatness but not the realities of this lifestyle. Your knees are shot, you get tired walking up flights of steps, you have a belly apron and traditional means of intercourse becomes damn near impossible and a host of other issues. I had to slow my role because I was gaining the wrong type of fat
NYCBellyBlimp:
You have stronger will than I.[/quote]
What will ? Remember what I looked like when we first spoke on Feabie and compare that to what I look like now and I gained an additional two hundred pound person so my willpower is damn near non-existent. 🐽🐽🐽🐽
4 years
WideJuan76:
People love the optics of fatness but not the realities of this lifestyle. Your knees are shot, you get tired walking up flights of steps, you have a belly apron and traditional means of intercourse becomes damn near impossible and a host of other issues. I had to slow my role because I was gaining the wrong type of fat
NYCBellyBlimp:
You have stronger will than I.[/quote]
My will isn't as strong as it seems. Added to the fact that yours is stronger than you realize; it is just that your addiction to be fat supercedes anything else and that in and of itself is a form of will power.
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