Sweetannaxxl:
Took a small break from doing anything, and visiting the site due to some criticism from outside sources. It really took a toll on me and made me feel negatively about myself. I have gained a substantial amount of weight in a relatively small timeframe and must have come as a shock to my peers, which prompted some discomfort in conversation. My question i guess is how do I deal with this? I have no genuine interest in losing the weight, I know it won’t make me happy, but being ridiculed for my size is ridiculous. Does anyone have any good tips for shrugging it off?

Munchies:
So, I want to add a little bit of nuance to this conversation.

If you are getting very fat very quickly, it's normal to be concerned. Sudden rapid weight gain is usually not a good sign of things. Usually, people think severe depression or illness. It may be good to reassess how fast you're gaining as rapid gains are not sustainable and can lead to later weight loss.



No amount of concern excuses any kind of body shaming or bullying. Since these are your friends, be honest with them. Tell them how you feel about what they are saying and doing. If they are really your friends, they will respect this. If not, then these are not people you need in your life.

Morbidly A Beast:
This is the correct take. Its times like this i wish i could react to a forum post without typing out a message

Enas:
I have made a suggestion to the site owner that kind of includes that (altho not for its own sake)

Munchie's take is not sufficient. Everyone else's takes are not even serious.

Neoliberal individualism leads in a toxic atomization where its not appropriate to care for other people's businesses.

Also, very few people are actually capable of that in the first place. Most are acting in a reactionary manner.

Sweetannaxxl:
Took a small break from doing anything, and visiting the site due to some criticism from outside sources. It really took a toll on me and made me feel negatively about myself. I have gained a substantial amount of weight in a relatively small timeframe and must have come as a shock to my peers, which prompted some discomfort in conversation. My question i guess is how do I deal with this? I have no genuine interest in losing the weight, I know it won’t make me happy, but being ridiculed for my size is ridiculous. Does anyone have any good tips for shrugging it off?

Jeromekayla6658:
Not my style lol. You tend to not stay married very long when you do things without the wife’s permission 🤣

FettSchwabbler:
Is it worth it to do an only fans with you and your fat jiggly girlfriend? However we would not be comfortable showing our faces. Besides that everything goes.

Piggy Teaser:
Whatever is making you feel powerless in your life, that you need to attack strangers on the internet and try to present yourself as morally superior to them, as well as using infantilising language to belittle them, I really hope it gets better and that you work it all out xx

Munchies:
I'm fine sweetheart. Are you?

Nah, I'm talking about a situation I've seen time and time again on FF, Dimensions, and other kink spaces. People, men and women, who say they get off on ruining people's lives really do mean it.

I've seen people brag about how they systematically isolated their feedees as they made them fat. Telling them that no one but them would want them but them. Destroying their support network until the feeder is literally the only person in their lives.

Then they make it so their feedee literally cannot survive without them. They convince them to quit their jobs and focus on getting fat. Sometimes they ruin their health so much they literally need the feeder for all their needs. Often it's both.

Once all that happens, many feeders will bounce straight up once they grow bored. I'll never forget that one guy who proudly boasted that they abandoned their feedee in a nursing home because they got so fat it wasn't fun anymore.

So, would you like to try again?

Piggy Teaser:
Projecting much?

Munchies:
I don't think I am.

If I was wildly off base about your character, you'd insisting that you'd never do something like this. That you care too much about your feedees to ever do something like this.

Instead, you keep trying to turn it around back on me.

Bless your heart.

Piggy Teaser:
Very condescending and dealing in total absolutes. Also "if you x, then you would y" is completely logic of your own invention, it's not some universal law. You're creating rules for a game that I have no interest in playing.
This is sub thread about ruining, on a forum about submission and domination. It goes dark places, mate.
What you wrote out and described would be erotica for many people, on both sides of the coin.
Nobody is making you be here, reading this stuff. I suggest you find something else to read, because it clearly upsets you.
What I wrote clearly triggered you and that's ok, you're allowed to feel how you feel and your experiences are perfectly valid.
But your feelings have nothing to do with me.
You've said what you want to say, you've allowed my words to confirm your assumptions about my character feel free to consider this a win and enjoy your dopamine xx

Piggy Teaser:
Whatever is making you feel powerless in your life, that you need to attack strangers on the internet and try to present yourself as morally superior to them, as well as using infantilising language to belittle them, I really hope it gets better and that you work it all out xx

Munchies:
I'm fine sweetheart. Are you?

Nah, I'm talking about a situation I've seen time and time again on FF, Dimensions, and other kink spaces. People, men and women, who say they get off on ruining people's lives really do mean it.

I've seen people brag about how they systematically isolated their feedees as they made them fat. Telling them that no one but them would want them but them. Destroying their support network until the feeder is literally the only person in their lives.

Then they make it so their feedee literally cannot survive without them. They convince them to quit their jobs and focus on getting fat. Sometimes they ruin their health so much they literally need the feeder for all their needs. Often it's both.

Once all that happens, many feeders will bounce straight up once they grow bored. I'll never forget that one guy who proudly boasted that they abandoned their feedee in a nursing home because they got so fat it wasn't fun anymore.

So, would you like to try again?

Enas:
There are women who do this to their feedees!?

Piggy Teaser:
Whatever is making you feel powerless in your life, that you need to attack strangers on the internet and try to present yourself as morally superior to them, as well as using infantilising language to belittle them, I really hope it gets better and that you work it all out xx

Munchies:
I'm fine sweetheart. Are you?

Nah, I'm talking about a situation I've seen time and time again on FF, Dimensions, and other kink spaces. People, men and women, who say they get off on ruining people's lives really do mean it.

I've seen people brag about how they systematically isolated their feedees as they made them fat. Telling them that no one but them would want them but them. Destroying their support network until the feeder is literally the only person in their lives.

Then they make it so their feedee literally cannot survive without them. They convince them to quit their jobs and focus on getting fat. Sometimes they ruin their health so much they literally need the feeder for all their needs. Often it's both.

Once all that happens, many feeders will bounce straight up once they grow bored. I'll never forget that one guy who proudly boasted that they abandoned their feedee in a nursing home because they got so fat it wasn't fun anymore.

So, would you like to try again?

Piggy Teaser:
Projecting much?

Piggy Teaser:
Whatever is making you feel powerless in your life, that you need to attack strangers on the internet and try to present yourself as morally superior to them, as well as using infantilising language to belittle them, I really hope it gets better and that you work it all out xx

Piggy Teaser:
My ultimate turn on is ruining someone's life by making them so fat xx

Munchies:


The number one rule of any kink is Safe, Sane, and Consensual. This one certainly breaks the first two.


To be clear, I'm not kink-shaming ruination kinks. There's a way to indulge in that that doesn't break the first kink rule. Ruining someone's life isn't that.

Piggy Teaser:
Would you be saying that if I was a cis femdom woman talking about keeping a sub's cock in a cage until it shrivelled up?

What about financial domination? look around on the net, you'll find plenty of people using that language and plenty of people to whom it appeals.
You are most definitely kink shaming, if this doesn't appeal to you, I suggest you find another post to read xx

Munchies:
Babes, I don't care for people who get off on ruining people's lives. That's different from things like ruining their figure or something.

It's very, very easy to go from "I get off on ruining people's lives" to straight-up abuse.

Piggy Teaser:
Mate, it's a figure of speech and now you're getting into semantics.
I responded to a post on this topic that the OP clearly gets off on.
Go and find something else to be recreationally outraged about or show everyone what a moral safe, righteous person you are -that's the real red flag, the one that is constantly pointing the finger and trying to demonstrate their moral high ground.
You're kink shaming and your implications about my character are completely unfounded and downright hurtful.

Piggy Teaser:
My ultimate turn on is ruining someone's life by making them so fat xx

Munchies:


The number one rule of any kink is Safe, Sane, and Consensual. This one certainly breaks the first two.


To be clear, I'm not kink-shaming ruination kinks. There's a way to indulge in that that doesn't break the first kink rule. Ruining someone's life isn't that.

Piggy Teaser:
Would you be saying that if I was a cis femdom woman talking about keeping a sub's cock in a cage until it shrivelled up?

What about financial domination? look around on the net, you'll find plenty of people using that language and plenty of people to whom it appeals.
You are most definitely kink shaming, if this doesn't appeal to you, I suggest you find another post to read xx