Always “feedee” rarely “foodie”

PurpleJade:
Something I’ve noticed in my chronic investigation of any profile I see on forum threads is that not enough of you like food.

Come on takeout, pizza, burgers and french fries? No offense to you if you are neurodivergent and can’t tolerate much more, but come on, where’s the variety? If your feeder cares for you they should be making you some delicious pasta with a fattening sauce on the daily, if not prep food for later.

Maybe I’m too small and too broke for constant fast food and takeout to get it, but I would want a feeder working themselves each meal to plump me up, not just be my glorified door dasher.


Comes from different flavors of feedist expressions. There are gainers, feedees, and foodies.

Gainers want to get fat. This is where you see most of the min/max crowd. They've crunched the numbers and figured out the best methods for getting fat. Taste is secondary to how fat the food will make you.

Feedees want to get fed. Variety is nice, but the focus is on the act of feeding - not the food. A lot of feedees will appreciate variety and fancy food, but most are content with their favorites so long at the feeding experience is nice.

Foodies want food. They love food and eating first and foremost. Any weight gained is incidental. However, since enjoying delicious food is normal in mainstream society, a lot of them do not feel the need to join fat fetish communities. Those who do join fat fetish spaces tend to do it because it's the closest thing that fits. But a lot of foodies I've talked to express frustration because most people are fat-focused and not food-focused.
1 year

Why can’t all women be 600lbs+

Malvineous:
*Checks URL*
Yep, we're on Fantasy Feeder alright. Reality Feeder is a very different website...


1 year

Why can’t all women be 600lbs+

IWantYouBigger:
I feel personally attacked 😂


Attacked? Baby girl, how could I possibly be attacking you? I'm only giving you the same energy you're putting out.

Now, get a snack. If you have time to type, you have time to eat. If your PFP is you, then you are far too thin. I can see your neck. It should be buried in fat.
1 year

Why can’t all women be 600lbs+

IWantYouBigger:
Honestly if I had it my way all you piggies would be stuffed to the brim from the moment you wake up to the moment you go sleep. And then woken up again in the middle of the night to me forcing a funnel down your fat little throat. If you’re gonna gain weight don’t have a goal. Keep going. And never ever stop. I wouldn’t give you a choice in the matter anyway.


Baby girl, you can't handle a 100 lbs woman. How can you handle a 600 lbs woman?

Bless your heart. But hey, I love guys like you. You're all so beautiful and submissive when I get through with you.

The perfect playthings. Eager to get on your knees and gorge yourselves just because I told you to do it.

Everyone knows men like you dream of fattening women because you want to be a fat piggy yourself. You're too chicken-shit to admit it.
1 year

Person you would love to feed/see fat

Letters And Numbers:
If Abe Lincoln had been really fat, maybe he would have survived the assassination attempt and guided the country through reconstruction.

Munchies:
Posts from a brighter timeline.

Lincoln was shot in the skull behind his left ear. I don't think anyone, even someone 2,000 lbs, is fat enough to withstand that.

Letters And Numbers:
Maybe JWB would have been so distracted by what a handsome big dude he was that he never would have pulled the trigger, huh?


And the day was saved. Thanks to



Yeah, I can get behind this.
1 year

Person you would love to feed/see fat

Letters And Numbers:
If Abe Lincoln had been really fat, maybe he would have survived the assassination attempt and guided the country through reconstruction.


Posts from a brighter timeline.

Lincoln was shot in the skull behind his left ear. I don't think anyone, even someone 2,000 lbs, is fat enough to withstand that.
1 year

Angiefoodcake:
I thought me and my sister are getting along just fine. But I guess not.

Today we went to the casino buffet for my birthday. It was fine and dandy until my siblings were bullying me. Such as taking photos of me even though I didn't want any pictures. They intentionally were laughing at me and my brother showed a zoomed up photo of my face.

The worst part is my sister called me fat. (like in a negative way) I know it's a joke, but deep inside I was sad. What triggered that comment was when I asked my siblings don't they get full after eating multiple plates since I do anyways. My sister says she does exercise and isn't a big eater.

My dad didn't even stood up for me. Well, he kind of did when he told them to stop taking pictures. But it seems like his head was in the clouds. He only got upset when my sister wanted to go to the giftshop and I guess he felt we forgotten him when he was at the nearby coffee bar. Note he hates getting abonded. But I thought we told him that? Besides, the gift shop is very close.

It wasn't a good day. Didn't end well either when there was a motorcycle accident on the freeway and we had to wait half an hour. Which wasted gas.

I guess some people are going to get mad at me. But I needed to vent this out.


In the absence of having someone advocate for you, you'll have to advocate for yourself. Tell your sisters how you feel. For example, "Please don't do/say x,y,z. I feel like when you do/say that, you hate me for some reason. I know you love me, but when you do/say x,y,z, I want to cry."

If this doesn't work, the next step is to make them feel uncomfortable for doing that. And there are a lot of ways to go about doing this. Examples include:

Staring blankly into their eyes for an uncomfortable amount of time.

Point out something that they feel insecure about in the same manner they talked about your weight.

Make a snappy comeback like, "I might be fat, but at least I'm not so miserable I have to belittle others just to feel something."

Act as if you can hear them but not see them. Eventually, bump into them and say, "Oh, there you are! You're so small that I didn't see you there. You should probably do something about that."
1 year

Person you would love to feed/see fat

Absolute1:
Definitely Kim Kardshian. When she was pregnant she gained so much weight and looked so sexy. And from the look of things with how big her ass was getting I was thinking maybe she didn’t need surgery to get that giant ass of hers maybe just pack in the pounds and let them spread that way. It would make it even hotter considering how vain and arrogant those Kardashian women are about their bodies and how much surgery they had. Fattening her up and “ruining” quote on quote that body covering it with fat would be great. If she didn’t have all that money and personal trainers she would definitely be fat now.


I'll never understand people who see gaining weight as a good way to humble women. But go off king, I guess.
1 year

Forced femme

WannabeBlob:
I had a really specific dream the other night, and ever since then I’ve been completely feral for the idea of a kinda depraved trans woman who dominates and corrupts me into a totally unrecognizable, 800-pound bimbo femboy.

It’s a real problem lol, like it distracts me while I’m driving.

Munchies:
Sort your life out man. No need to kill a family in a minivan or an old lady crossing the street because your dick is hard.

FuntimesGettingFat:
Dam you did him dirty but I don't disagree.


Ain't nothing dirty about it. Distracted driving is as dangerous as driving under the influence. I have all the disdain and the disgust for people like that.

1 year

Had a super fast 60lb gain

BigBallBellyGirl:
I think the only way you could gain this kind of weight unintentionally, other than what Munchies already described, is if you were already fat and accustomed to eating enormous amounts of food everyday. At one point, I was eating so much, 10,000 calories was a moderate day. I didn't feel like I was trying to gain. I was just eating a lot, and I kept blowing up. That takes time to work up that kind of capacity though. I can't imagine an average weight person putting on 60 lb in 3 months without meaning to do it.

Munchies:
I was thinking of you when I posted my last comment. I was going to post it without the last paragraph, but then I was like, "BigBallBellyGirl could gain 60 lbs in 3 to 4 months accidentally." And then I tacked on the last paragraph.

BigBallBellyGirl:
It's true. 🤣 It's what happens when you eat so much, for so long, enough food to feed a family of five in a day becomes your norm.

Since I'm maintaining now, I kind of miss it from time to time. Sighhh...


Feel that. My partner hasn't been gaining for about a year now. And while neither of us st it, and I don't care how big or small he is, we both miss the extreme stuffing sessions we used to do all the time. Honestly, it was more enjoyable than all the weight he gained.

Oh well. It's on the to-do list for later this year.
1 year