How big of a belly do you want?

TubSlug:
I don't know how many inches, but I want it to hang low enough to hide my underwear when I'm standing ☺️


You’re well on your way, Tub :-)
1 year

At what point does a bbw becomes a ssbbw?

If we’re going by straight up BMI on a lady, then I’d say 50 and above. My wife is 5-3 and about 320, so she’s close :-)
1 year

Body goals, not weight goals

I just hope to grow my belly and my moobs. Only have some mini-moobs at the moment :-)
1 year

What is your height?

5-11 and roughly 210. Most of the weight is in my gut :-)
1 year

Taking the plunge?

It’ll tend to come with age anyway. When i hit my 30s, I saw my fit expand into the visceral beer/food belly I have today. As a guy, it makes me feel more my age anyway :-)
1 year

Coke or pepsi

If pressed to drink a cola, it’s Coke all the time. Pepsi was always too sweet/mediciney to me.
1 year

Should i tell my boyfriend that i have a fat kink?

Being open and honest is the best policy :-) My wife and I are totally honest with each other about our turn-ons and it helps us be more confident in our sizes :-)

Just today, she was recounting a trip she took when she was 16. Back then, she was maybe 150. She’s been north of 300 pounds for a long time now. She remarked she “still had a figure then.” I just said, “Well, you still have a figure — it’s just even better and sexier now.” 😊 Helps that today was our sixth anniversary 😊
1 year

Found my dream girl

FAsasquatch:
You heard right, I don’t know what god I appeased and how I did it, but I managed to find a healthy relationship with a feedee. She doesn’t want my money, she doesn’t want a rescuer, she wants to be taken care of ofc but she’s willing to help out and work if she needs to until we’re making enough money that she doesn’t need to. She wants a family and we’re currently working on getting her down here to visit. I was hesitant to post anything, anywhere because I didn’t want to be like “never mind 😭” 3 days later, but it’s been like 3 months now and it’s been amazing. She gushes over me non stop, we’re into all the same kinks, she’s even awakened some I didn’t know about lol 😂, she’s the only girlfriend I’ve ever had that can keep up with my sex drive 😩, she’s exactly my type, loves to eat, and get HUUUUUUGE AF!!!!!!

We have our arguments now and then, but she’s been a bastion of support while I was out of work during a depressive episode that forced me to quit my job. Even when we fight we both sit down and have a reasonable discussion afterwards where we communicate our feelings about each other’s actions and come to a compromise. This is actually the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had. Like I guess a degree in communication and 4 years of therapy helps, but still. She’s been there through every mood swing and shitty thing I’ve said when everything hurts and I can’t help it. And she thinks she’s the lucky one lol 😂

But I’m kinda just reaching out here for advice. Budget gaining foods? Good weight gain shakes?

I’m also wondering if there are any feedism couples here that want friends lol 😂


Congrats, man! Independent and confident are two words that come to mind on your description of her. Here’s to good times!
1 year

First out of control moment

My wife and I combine for about 550 pounds, so our control is pretty much non-existent ;-)
1 year