Not very much, only because my eating has slowed down. I don’t do much holidaying anyway.

I’m becoming happier as I’m passing 230 lbs, on my way to 235. Then possibly 245-250.

My pants are 42s and becoming snug, my shirts are filling out.

I’m really liking what I’m seeing.

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Same here. For about a year I wavered, even to the point of joining Weight Watchers (again). I’m still a member but as of lately I have no intention of losing any weight, but rather, looking forward to gaining more. I’ve come to love being fat and how I look. Whereas after an orgasm I used to lose the desire to be fat, now I’m comfortable with it 24/7.

I joke about being fat. I call myself “Fatboy” openly, I grab my belly and say I worked hard for this, I have t shirts that have sayings like “Living the chubby bearded life”, “If you’re into chubby bearded guys then, hello”, “Chubby guys cuddly better”, and a few others. I’m openly proud of being fat, and people know it. So the answer to the o.p. is no, I don’t feel any pressure to indicate I’m unhappy.

I alternate between them, depending on my mood. I’m bipolar and at times I need to be left alone. Other times I’m the life of the party, as long as it’s a fairly small party.

I’m a gainer myself and been weightlifting since 1993, eventually training powerlifting. I still workout but not like I used to due to a lumbar fusion and rotator cuff surgery.

That’s my test too. It’s called cummer’s remorse. In the beginning of gaining after I shot I’d say this isn’t for me, I’m not like this, etc. Now after I finish I’m still happy being fat and getting fatter.

If gainer material is SFW I don’t think they’ll take that down. I’ve found some great fat-guy pics that are PG.

I don’t consider this site, grommr, xtube, tumblr and the like to be cheating unless you follow through with something more than internet chatting or masturbating to porn or other fantasy.

I’m not sure I even consider raunchy sexting cheating as long as both parties know it’s only fun fantasy and will never go further. However, I think the line is crossed with cam2cam, Skype (or whatever it’s called) masturbation. Grommr members are notorious for wanting to wank on camera. My own profile says I don’t do it, don’t want to, can’t do it, so don’t bother asking.

I’m there and here to talk about something we can’t ordinarily talk about irl. In fact a couple of guys I chat with on Grommr said to me first they just want to talk about weight gain, food, clothes.

I can only relate to me, so here goes...

1. Lumbar fusion that limits my flexibility and ability to do physical things.

2. A bipolar/migraine med I take that my doc acknowledges makes me gain weight.

3. “It happens” as I shrug my shoulders.

4. I like to eat.