Bottomline, she's already gaining and giving in. You constantly bringing it up is only going to pester her, particularly if you're highlighting the negative, shaming aspects of gaining such as the waddling.

Most girls I've run into are more into the goddess worship side of being heavy and don't like the humiliation aspect; particularly if they've always been heavier most their lives and have a past of emotionally grappling with their weight/appearance.

Have you shown her profiles of famous "gainers" on Curvage or Tumblr for her to see the massive fanbase and following they have? Get her exposed to the culture around feederism? Most girls don't even know this is a "thing".

I remember the first time seeing my wife out of breath from folding laundry and asked me to put the clothes away (because of the stairs). It was such a turn on and I laughed at the idea of "I'm probably the first husband that got sexually aroused by being asked to put away laundry!" ?

Then seeing her grabbing a sugary energy drink for "energy" knowing it was just going to make her even more fatter and out of energy.

It wasn't long before she asked if I would fold and put away the laundry from now on...but not because she's too fat. She "just doesn't like doing it and her feet have been hurting." ?

I remember her super heavy sister completely out of breath from just tying her shoes! She had to "take a minute" to get mentally prepared before heading outside!

Wife now has to apply deodorant under them. And they sweat like crazy. If she vacuums the house now, her shirt looks like she jumped into a pool. She doesn't like them. As you can imagine, I have a different opinion.

So....you went up 250%+ in weight after the IUD and you're claiming you've had "NO CHANGE IN WEIGHT"???

Did you go from oral birth control to IUD? Just curious what you're comparing your baseline to.

I only ask because I've dated numerous girls that had been on some type of birth control since their teens and never actually experienced and/or forgotten what a natural libido feels like. ALL hormonal birth control increases SHBG which attaches to testosterone and removes it from the blood leading to lower testosterone levels; a proven vital component to strong libido in women.

Be curious where she was at when "anorexic" because 180lbs at 5'1" is well past clinically obese. 135lbs is "overweight" at that height. Her current 210 weight puts her at a 40 BMI which is officially MORBIDLY OBESE.

Calories are calories. IMO those boost shakes are ridiculously expensive for what they are. I would say the same for mass weight gain shakes.

There's a reason even bodybuilders don't buy that crap; they make their own whey protein shakes. Check the label of any mass gainer - it's 80% Maltodextrin or Dextrose. Go to any beer brewing store and you can buy 30lb bags of Maltodextrin or Dextrose for a few bucks. That's what bodybuilders do, then add a small amount of pure whey isolate crystal to it.

The only people paying $50 for a small container of Maltodextrin hoping to gain weight are total schmucks.

As big as my wife is, she doesn't really like sweets. Would love to get her a large box of donuts or bag of chocolate bars and see her go to town.... One can wish. ?

Tacos, fried chicken and Indian food it is...

While there is a strong current promoting healthy eating and fitness, the general trend in the US is promoting a life where you shop online on Amazon, even buy your groceries online, camp out at night binging Netflix, office jobs where most of our citizens are completely sedentary their entire day and night.

Even walking through a brick-and-mortar store for your goods is passé.

The body-acceptance/positivity movement has gone mainstream with all big box department stores now selling trendy plus-size clothes one could only find at stores like Lane Bryant or Catherine's in the past.

I see obesity only becoming more normalized in the years to come.

The emotional coaster of my wife's monthly cycle no doubt causes crazy emotional binge eating leading up to her period and that entire week of. I keep tabs on it and know when I can stuff her silly and she'll just want more and more. Most guys hate that PMS week. I don't know, that's when she's constantly horny and hungry, haha.