Obviously this is a sensitive subject, however we have drifted off topic slightly.
Lets bring this discussion back on course about the weight gain effects birth control may or may not have.
Thanks all,
c00kie
5 years
18 months... better get my World of Warcraft subscription back up and running then lol.
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It really depends on what's more important to you. Lots of people are in non sexual romantic relationships, and lots of people are involved in a friends with benefits type relationship. Neither are bad if it's what you signed up for... However your partner should be informed of your expectations of the relationship... You don't want to end up leading people on in the hopes of getting something more from you down the line.
I would advise you to think about why you don't feel you can have a relationship with a fat person... Could it be you think your friends and family wouldn't be accepting of your partner being fat? Is it that you're an active person and don't feel a fat partner is a sensible choice? Maybe something else entirely...
Regardless there are plenty of fat people all with different lifestyle choices, interests, hobbies, were not all the same breed... So you will find someone who matches you mentally and sexually, it's just a matter of dating and meeting people.
On the other side of the coin, you could embrace your feeder side, and find a thinner feedee or gainer and experiment with that... However if you don't address whatever concerns you have about a romantic relationship with a fat partner, that would also affect this type of relationship as your partner gained weight. Some soul searching to be done I think.
Anyway there's my two bit!
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British Gaining Guy:
Please please can we not have a civil discussion? You’re all old enough to keep a civil tongue in your heads. If someone is upsetting to offending you then either engage them in civil debate or don’t at all. There is no need for hate here.
This this and more of this... There's no need for the discussion to turn into a personal attack. We are all entitled to our inevitably differing opinions! You don't have to agree, but we don't need to shut down the discussion or escalate things in an unpleasant manner.
Personally I don't have a problem with body or facial hair on any gender. I go through phases of wanting to shave and being all natural with all areas on my own body... It really is down to you and your own unique view, style and preference as to what you do with your own body, and what you find physically appealing on someone else.
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Well as much as this was a lovely idea, best to have a rain check on this one for a while! Stay in and stay safe folks!
5 years
Well what would everyone like to do?
Just a casual meet up at a bar... or book a table at a restaurant, but then we would need definite numbers... would people prefer day time or an evening thing???
5 years
Shall we set a date in April? Give some more people a chance to see this, that may want to come?
5 years
Yeah I am potentially down for this... Where you thinking?
5 years
Hi lovelys,
Was scrolling through FB last night and saw a post from Simply Be, for those who don't know are a plus size clothing brand.
They are having a competition to find a new plus size model! Exciting! Anyway, thought maybe some of the gorgeous ladies on here might want to go for it so details are in the image below!
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