Plus size women, but overweight men? what's the deal?


Thaynor:
"Plus size" women are being called empowering because they are kinda conveying the notion larger women can just exist and be happy irrespective of what others think of their appearance. Larger men can already do this, guys being overweight is more normalised than it is for women where for them they kinda deal with a lot of ugly stuff for even being 10lb or 20lb heavier.

Like, I really kinda don't mean to be a total bummer about weight on a fat appreciation website, but, it's so strange to hear a guy envy how overweight women are treated by a society rigged with male gaze in mind. Especially as not every overweight person likes to be reminded they are overweight or finds their weight attractive, which is totally really each their own. Genuinely not really an attack, but just, odd to hear it even here.


Thank you for your insight on this

But FYI I'm actually a woman haha
2 years

Plus size women, but overweight men? what's the deal?

We all know about plus Size women, But what's the deal with men not getting a special title? And simply getting called over weight men?

It seems that even the main stream don't have a title for bigger guys, You have plus Size clothes for women, that make it clear they are plus size clothes

But for men they simple just have "large" sizes

The same can be the same in the media, with plus size women being called empowering

But larger men, don't get anything like that also

What's the deal with this?
2 years

Top 5 nintendo switch games

What's everyone's top 5 Nintendo switch games?

I've got 2 lists, One for switch original and one that's any game

My switch original list is

1. Xenoblade 2
2. Zelda BOTW
3. Metroid Dread
4. Smash ultimate
5. pokemon legends arcus

And my general Switch games is

1. Xenoblade 2
2. Zelda Botw
3. Xenoblade Definitive Edition
4. Metroid Dread
5. Mario kart 8 Deluxe

Share your top 5's down bellow!
2 years

Gaining road trip - australia

Sounds like an ambitious project!
3 years

Annoying things with the fetish

We all have problems with things, even things that we like

For me, I love the feederism community. And I love the appreciation for people who are on the bigger side

However, one thing that does annoy me at times, is when people see others more as a object/piece of meat, instead of an actual person

Another thing for me, is when people talk ill of people who are skinnier etc etc

Anyone else got some things that annoy them, around the fetish?
3 years

Writing advice and how to tackle weight gain

Miachu:
I'm wanting to get back to adding to my story here

was just wondering if anyone had advice for writing and tackling weight gain?

AskDrFeeder:
What many weight-gain stories lack is a story arc. They're like "Mary ate a lot and gained weight. She liked it. So she ate more. And gained more weight. And then she ate even more and gained even more than that."

You can pretty that up with adjectives and metaphors and descriptions and what-not, but it's not much of a story. There's no arc.

My stories always have an arc. Not saying this is the only way to do it, but my stories always start with a slim or average-sized woman. Something or someone causes her to gain a bit of weight--willingly or not. She is conflicted. For various reasons, she partly wants to lose weight or at least stop gaining, but also, for various reasons, she partly wants to gain more.

The bulk of the story is usually her (perhaps with help) working out these conflicts. She finally gets past them and gets fat and lives gluttonously ever after.


Thank you Dr. Feeder

I'm somewhat thinking along those lines when it comes to this story. I'm not a big fan "girl gets fat the end" haha, Thank you for the advice!

*btw thanks for all that advice you've given folk around this stuff for years 😊
3 years

Writing advice and how to tackle weight gain

I'm wanting to get back to adding to my story here

was just wondering if anyone had advice for writing and tackling weight gain?
3 years

How to loose weight like a champ

April has now arrived! And May soon will follow. And you know what that means? Summer will soon arrive! The season for hanging out at the beach and showing those lovely beach bodies!

But you may be looking downing at yourself, and feeling like a right Fool. There's a belly down there. UH NO! Some body's been a bit of a piggy recently! You can't be seen in a bikini with that thing bouncing around all over the place!

But don't you worry, You're good old pal Miachu is gonna help you! Here's some quick tips to help you loose that blubber!!!

1. Diet

It now sound simple, But cutting back on all those cakes and fatty treats you eat will help reduce that gut you've got spouting there, Eating more lighter foods, such as soup will really help you to loose that fat in no time! You'd be a fool not to try it!

2. Exercise

Now now, I know some of you probably just had a mini heart attack with reading that title. But exercise is a great way to get your body movie and shedding those fat cells away! And with it being April, You'd be a fool not to take advantage of the nicer weather! Can do some lovely runs! or in some of your cases, very slow pant filled waddling

3. Enough with the feedings!

How you supposed to loose weight, when you've got a partner stuffing your face filled to the brim with food!!! It's as if you want to be fat!

And there was some quick tips on how to loose weight, Ik some of you may fear my words, But hey at least you won't be a April fool
3 years

Kirby kirby kirby!

New Kirby is out

what's your thoughts on the game?

I love the game! Think it's one of the best platformers on switch!

Dare i say better than Odyssey?
3 years