I'd say I'd like both! Although I'm not specifically into humiliation (i think). I'd love a very rough feeder who whould force me to eat for her pleasure and make me addicted and manipulate me. But after we orgasm I'd need a romantic and caring person to cuddle with.
For me this really goes with a mommy - fat boy kind of thing, where half of the time "Mommy knows better" amd the other half im just really sensitive and need a carrying person!

And im really curious, what do you think? And what do you prefer yourself?

Death feederism is super hot if you're into it! It's so extreme! And it's taking the dom / sub dynamic to an other level! Do you plan on practicing it irl?