Fundingfeeder:
I’ve always wanted a sub so large she physically cannot get off without another persons help.

I love the inherent weight Humiliation paired with the orgasm control.

Fat girls don’t get to cum without permission.

TheDemolitionMann:
I love this type of domination and is not quite represented here enough if you ask me. This would truly be a dream.

Munchies:
That's because toys exist.

TheDemolitionMann:
And your point is?

Fundingfeeder:
I’ve always wanted a sub so large she physically cannot get off without another persons help.

I love the inherent weight Humiliation paired with the orgasm control.

Fat girls don’t get to cum without permission.

TheDemolitionMann:
I love this type of domination and is not quite represented here enough if you ask me. This would truly be a dream.

MarkSeanDavis17:
It's certainly not something you want to open with. I'm a fat person and can't say anything good has come from someone I just met telling me about my body size/weight. While it may be a fetish/kink for you, it doesn't mean the person on the receiving end has to agree with you. There are ways of putting it, and if it's become a pattern it's time to evaluate your approach and change it up. I think most people would prefer to hear reasons you're attracted to them, beyond fetishizing them. Ironic I know, given the website we're on.

BookWormAndFeedist:
Thank you for your comment. 🙂

Sterlingdf:
What is the purpose of bloating with sodas and mints or other methods?

I don't like the feeling that I am so full I'm going to throw up.

Does bloating actually help enlarge ones belly? I guess if that were true I wouldn't mind those results.

Munchies:
If you drop some Mentos in Coke, it will fizz like crazy. If you do this, I recommend you take your time.

Bloating helps improve capacity, but you can do other things and achieve the same results.

Sterlingdf:
Oh? Now I am intrigued. Like what "other things"?

And how do you use Mentos in Coke? Drink the Coke first then take a Mentos? How much Coke should one use?

Sterlingdf:
What is the purpose of bloating with sodas and mints or other methods?

I don't like the feeling that I am so full I'm going to throw up.

Does bloating actually help enlarge ones belly? I guess if that were true I wouldn't mind those results.

Makemegrow:
Id love to hear about other ways to bloat a lot if you know any

BookWormAndFeedist:
Since I found out that I'm into feedism, I knew I loved to see others eat a ton of food, get stuffed, enjoy themselves and eventually gain weight.
However, more recently I've also been curious about mutual gaining. I still prefer to be the feeder as I think it's very romantic and sexy to make someone happy with food, indulgence, soft encouraging and then the needed physical contact. But when I consider the sharing component of mutual gaining, I find it just as romantic and cozy.
My problem is that I think I don't have what it takes to be a good gaining partner. First, I can't eat much and I can't keep going if I'm full.
I like other people to overeat and keep eating so long as that gives them pleasure, but maybe I wouldn't get the same pleasure.
Secondly, my body is not designed to gain weight due to its extremely high metabolism. I reckon my stubborn 88 lbs/40 kilos could be frustrating to my partner.

I'd like to try it because I feel I could truly enjoy its dynamic, but if I don't like eating much and can't gain weight, doesn't that defeat the point?
Would I be better off as only a feeder?