In my anecdotal experience, it is primarily a location thing or a subcultural thing. When I first moved down South in the United States in 2005, I was around 270 and I would approach but when I fell for an older woman down there she showed me that there are traditions in places like North Carolina, South Carolina, Louisiana, Tennessee and Texas in which if the person you are dating isn't obese then that is a reflection on them for not being a good spouse so in two places specifically it was like a fifty plus year thing of making ones spouse fat. Hell, I got approached more in the South by women than I ever have in my life especially when I passed 350 because they saw that as not fat enough.
4 years
WideJuan76:
People love the optics of fatness but not the realities of this lifestyle. Your knees are shot, you get tired walking up flights of steps, you have a belly apron and traditional means of intercourse becomes damn near impossible and a host of other issues. I had to slow my role because I was gaining the wrong type of fat
NYCBellyBlimp:
You have stronger will than I.[/quote]
What will ? Remember what I looked like when we first spoke on Feabie and compare that to what I look like now and I gained an additional two hundred pound person so my willpower is damn near non-existent. 🐽🐽🐽🐽
4 years
WideJuan76:
People love the optics of fatness but not the realities of this lifestyle. Your knees are shot, you get tired walking up flights of steps, you have a belly apron and traditional means of intercourse becomes damn near impossible and a host of other issues. I had to slow my role because I was gaining the wrong type of fat
NYCBellyBlimp:
You have stronger will than I.[/quote]
My will isn't as strong as it seems. Added to the fact that yours is stronger than you realize; it is just that your addiction to be fat supercedes anything else and that in and of itself is a form of will power.
4 years
WideJuan76:
That it is but my addiction was too far gone. It was like a virtual reality headset because I was so deep into gorging that I didn't realize that I was superobese until my gut was hanging.
MustBecomegluttonous:
I hope this happens to me suddenly I realize not only am I no longer skinny but I'm now class 3 obece[/quote]
If you have made it this far then that means you have had moments of this. But to fully give into it is the next step.....
4 years
NYCBellyBlimp:The OP of the video appears to have passed on.
I'm posting the link as he shares his experience from 600 to 700lbs.
If it is too morbid, no 1 is forced to watch etc.
I'm posting the link as a learning lesson for those determined to do so, and see the circumstances 1st hand should you decide to follow suit or slow your roll.
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People love the optics of fatness but not the realities of this lifestyle. Your knees are shot, you get tired walking up flights of steps, you have a belly apron and traditional means of intercourse becomes damn near impossible and a host of other issues. I had to slow my role because I was gaining the wrong type of fat
4 years
ShyEater:
I've been in and out of the feedism scene for the last 3-4 years and everytime due to the extremity of the feedism I enjoy, I have found I end up needing to take a break and lose the gained weight before it too severely impacts my life, because I know I'm not in a position where extreme gaining is viable for me. Currently striving for a balance of indulging in my enjoyment of extreme forced feeding with maintaining a chubby but not hindering weight.
Yeah, it can become a tight rope trying to balance this lifestyle choice and with every day situations especially fiscally. About twelve years ago, I came into a nice nest egg of money from a relative leaving it to me and we save money and invest so that change grew even more so and I had lost my gig back then so I could just live off of the interest and that took me down the rabbit hole of obesity because I had extra resources to do it. I was new to the life so I made friends online and actually met them to interview them on how they did it but I could only stay in the fringes of this life before because I didn't have the resources.
4 years
NYCBellyBlimp:
It took 20-25 lbs to go from 1 Large Value Meal (Wendy's Baconator) to fill me for the entire day to 2 Large Value Meals (Wendy's Bacon & Wendy's Big Bacon Classic Triple to fill me for the time being mid-day.
15 additional lbs later on..would take an additional large meal and extras (whether leftovers or ordering 2 McDonalds cheeseburger and triple cheeseburger meals with 3 4pc nuggets 2 apple pies) to fill me overnight.
It took me years for my appetite to increase because I always used to eat in small portions every four hours and I hated the feeling of being full back then so I had to slowly pace myself and get used to slowly increasing my intake over time.
4 years
Gettingfatter25:
Recently my boyfriend has started teasing me about how fat I am getting and I love it. Such a turn on and makes me want to keep stuffing myself.
A good friend was making me fun of the fact that I can barely fit into size 16 clothes and that was also a lot of fun.
Never thought I would enjoy being teased so much but I love it.
I used to be the athletic type and I used to always identify with that so when I finally got teased it was a shock because I didn't have the same response as I once did because I got external validation for something I wanted to accomplish and you are experiencing that here. It is positive reinforcement. That is why I call our obesity a form of body modification like getting tattooed except we do ours with fat
4 years
WideJuan76:
When stairs started to become an issue and growing a belly apron will make you contemplate that I might have gone to the point of no return
johniav:
I can imagine. It's hard to anticipate the consequences both good and bad.
That it is but my addiction was too far gone. It was like a virtual reality headset because I was so deep into gorging that I didn't realize that I was superobese until my gut was hanging.
4 years
I didn't realize how much that I liked eating until I met an older woman who taught me about the sensuality of eating and feeding...
4 years
